My husband is threating me with deport me to my country

[karime25]

Hi this is my story i get married about 2 years ago and my husband and i were having a long distance relation and he came to visit me to Colombia every time he could, he was nice, funny, and every thing i want but as soon as i receive my papers and i move to Canada he totally change with me, he call me names all the time,  he complain about everything i did, force me to do things that i didn't want to do, he makes me cry almost every single day since my arrive, i didn't want to said to my family because i didn't want they worry about me, he was getting advantage that i didn't have anywhere to go and he even´t was making money, he didn't want to go work, we didn't have food in the fridge and he didn't care he said if u want food go get a job and buy food, i arrive in winter and he never care if i have a winter jacket, his father saw me dyeing of cold and he give me one, finally her sister realize of the abuse that i was going throw and she told me to stay in her place and advice me to not came back to his brother, i stay with her sister after two months of being living with him and she call the police because he abuse verbally of me and his son in her own house so he is not allowed to go there, so now im by myself i have a job, im doing good but i don't want to be with him anymore because i realize the type of person he is, but he is threating me to get me deported and i want to know what to do because i am doing well here.

[Stumpedmom]

as long as you have your PR status, he can not have you deported....if you are a PR, then you can move on with your life and try to be happy!!!

[chelley]

As long as you've committed no crime he cant really do anything to you... It's unlikely after two years he'd get much attention from CIC unless he can prove any serious misrepresentation on your behalf...

In fact his sponsorship agreement states that he is responsible for you for 3 years, so if you had to get social assistance during this time, he would have to pay it back...

I'd suggest proceeding with divorce and any custody orders to get him out of your life for good...

[Jeff]

I'd suggest proceeding with divorce and any custody orders to get him out of your life for good...

As would I. Sounds like he is trying to use the "deport you" crap to bully you into doing what he wants. Sorry you have to go through this...

[canadianwoman]

Agree with the above. He cannot get you deported. You have your PR already. You even have some of his family on your side. Just get on with your life and try not to worry about what he says. He could only get you deported if he had proof you lied on the application, and it would have to be a serious lie.

Legal Aid in your city may be able to help you with a divorce.

[awor]

You're doing the right thing. I'm sorry you have to go through this but I'm glad you're safe now. No one deserves to be treated like that. And like everyone else said, he can't get your deported unless you lied on the application. Just go about your new life without him.