The more the Merrier they say.. well somewhere.. lol.. if anything all of us in process now will be a good example of timing for them.
We still have heard nothing at all, however it downed on me after reading many posts people perceive progress at times with the request for this or that.. Medicals, Police clearances, ROPRF, etc. We included everything from the start and very detailed application with lots of evidence. So while it feels at times we hear no progress, well we included everything needed and more.
Tonight I am sending my wife a bunch of nice gifts as well as a say 100+ page update, six months of phone records since we applied, a family vacation trip report (tickets, boarding passes, visa's, receipts) many cards we send to each other and family.. yeh we love the technology but we are also old school at times as receiving a card in the mail rather than an email is sweet. Updated evidence in every category in a way. If she gets called in for an interview she will have very good documentation to go in with.
I hope we hear something soon, we both to this day I can honestly say we spend at least 4hrs together a day. The worst as you know is the time difference (8hrs for us), but she is a real trooper and stays up till 2am or later at times so we can share quality time. Even when she is dead tired she just wishes to make sure I made it to our home here. (I have to commute to work sometimes over a hr)
Anyhow I been married before, I have went through the motions where not all choices are yours alone (everyone saying you should be married, etc), and you hope for the best. The hardest lesson to learn in life is you only have the power to change yourself, and you can kill yourself each day in hope, but you can not change anyone else.
I am now married to my “True Love”, and the First Lady I asked from my heart, my sole, in knowing not hoping “Will you Marry Me” This is why we miss each other so, because as most of us, it is True Love. Yes we did not choose to find love so far apart, however we are doing the hardest thing imaginable, and yet.. It is OAK.
I could go on as usual lol, but yeh you heard it all from me before lol
"Love you can find anywhere, but True Love you would cross oceans for" ~ Cupid