morocco marriage scam and i lost her

[joecreosta]

to all the canadian fellow citizens please be careful when dealing with a moroccan online through internet or while you are travelling to morocco for a visit. i met this beautiful girl (i thought she was) online 2 years ago and got married with her last year. just this year her papers and everything got approved and she came to canada two weeks ago and LEFT me and went to Montreal somewhere since there's a huge moroccon community. i lost my everything i lost my so called love my money and my life which i dont have anymore. please be careful when brininging someone from morocco. moroccons always have a plan in the back of their heads. now i dont know where she is she has no contact information or cell phone. but i know she is somewhere in quebec province. my advise is not to deal with any moroccons. i cannot beelive that i even went to her house to get married last year and all her family and friends seemed to be genuine but it was all a planned scheme to get their girl to canada somehow and now i am left with nothing but a broken heart. i trusted her because she seemed like the best thing in the whole world but her goal was to come to canada somehow. i seen lots of posts here where you canadian women are trying to get their moroccon husbands to canada or seeking advise on moroccons. take my advise and FORGET morocco you will get hurt i guarantee.

[Yasmina/isabelle]

I agree with Raven!!!

Whats with the negative messages u write it once not duplicate it to avryone by sending personal mesages!!!
and by the way im married to the best man in the world who is moroccan been together for 3 years now
so sorry u where hurt but to send the hate is so negative!!!!

[joecreosta]

very soon you will know when same happens to your or to your loved ones.then come back and ask me you will then say YES JOE WAS RIGHT

[pingpong292]

I would fully support "joecreosta" here because I have just managed to safe myself from a moroccan girl.

Long story short, I met a  Moroccan girl on internet (skype). She was from Fes, Covering her head with scarf, nice and decent, always shows committment to her religion, country and values etc etc. I went to meet her after 6 months. I found her nice and what i has predicited. I met her again after 6 months and again after another six months.

But being a typical Cancerian, I could not feel secure and knew that there is some thing wrong. She never forced me to marry and always told she can wait. But two months back after my last visit. She told me that we cannot continue If i cannot marry her. It was time to take decision. I told her that I cannot and we disconnected for ever. I knew I am good so I will get good. Somehow she by mistake included me in one of her email where she was speaking with her close friends in Moroccan language. It might be intentional or un intentional that she forwarded that email to me. I got help from one of the Arabic people work with me. When I read the meaning I thanked God that He safed me from a Mafia.

Conclusion of that email was: She invited me to Morocco to make me crazy with her looks, style etc etc just to get married with me and once she got paper she had plans to take divorce and get engaged someone with her community.

joecreosta, I am sorry to hear that you went many steps further and that has distroyed your life. I have only lost few thousands £ on visiting her and giving her expensive gifts items and jewlry. But this is not the end of the world. If you can do anything in this regard, then spread the truth, educated people (boys and girls) that don't get fall in trap of Love over internet with anyone and specially Moroccans.

[wickedfaddy]

hi joey and everyone  i have a friend she is in canada likes a guy who is in morroco and she is not believing at all tht its a spam i mean that guy she still up for it and wants to go morroco what should i do now can u please suggest me anything so that i can tell her. so please do let me know.


Best Regards
FaddY

[toby]

That's an awful way to end a dream, Joe. I hope you are reporting her to the authorities, who might find her and revoke her residency.

It shows us what a difficult job visa officers have:  if a partner in a relationship cannot truly know the other's intention, then how can a VO know based on mere documents?  Even a preliminary interview would not let a VO know with certainty whether a marriage was done for the visa or for love.

So, we return to an idea dismissed by many in this forum:   the two-year probation period, during which two people can live together in Canada, but must be together (i.e. the relationship is legitimate) at the end of the two-year period.

Yes, there are dangers, including the possibility that the Canadian sponsor could use this probation period as leverage to abuse the immigrant.  But there are easy ways to counterbalance this danger. Yes, there is no guarantee that Immigration will be able to track down and deport the scam-immigrant, but at least there is some possibility.  The alternative is the "all or nothing"  approach Canada takes at present, by which if the applicant fools the VO initially, he or she is free and clear.

As well, a probation period would take some of the pressure off VOs to accurately guess the applicant's intention.  Ther's no better proof of intention than the applicant's actions over time. A few can fake love for a short period of time; very few could fake love over a two-year period, so the probation would weed out many scam artists.

The government does not often listen to citizens and residents, but if ever it does, be ready with an informed opinion about how to fix this broken immigration process. 

[pingpong292]

hi joey and everyone  i have a friend she is in canada likes a guy who is in morroco and she is not believing at all tht its a spam i mean that guy she still up for it and wants to go morroco what should i do now can u please suggest me anything so that i can tell her. so please do let me know.


Best Regards
FaddY

Faddy, I will never recommend anyone to go and get his/her partner from another corner of the world. There may be many genuine cases but as far as Morocco is concerned, I would recommend your friend to do some research and try to learn how she get to know this man. If this was over the internet and specifically through any dating website or Skype, then you should tell your friend that visit any dating website and try to figure out how many Moroccan man and women sitting on-line on all these websites to hunt people. For example Muslima.com, Shadi.com etc. If she create her account there and spend some time over these dating websites, she would find out that she will get response from any single man from Morocco and he will be in love with her and would like her to visit.
My observation about Moroccan culture is that they are nice people. But because of the Poverty, illiteracy, crimes and overwhelmed with the neighbouring Europe, they just want to run away from their country at any cost. So they are on sale on internet and there only purpose to setup dating trap on internet is to get into Europe/Canada. Once this guy reach in Canada, he will kick her ass and will go to live with partner from  his own country.

[rjessome]

 @  toby

My friend, don't waste your sympathy on joe.  This NEVER happened to him.  Still don't know why he wrote it.  He only actually got married for the first time this past summer I think.  And he'd been looking for a girl from Morocco since about 2007!  It seems like the first few that he found rejected him.  Read through his previous posts starting back with the oldest pages and you will see what I mean.  He's been on and off this forum for years trying to figure out the sponsorship process for his potential Moroccan bride(s).  Like I said, I "think" he actually did get married this past summer.  I know I have about 3 pages of PMs from him asking about every step of the process!

[toby]

 @   toby

My friend, don't waste your sympathy on joe.  This NEVER happened to him.  Still don't know why he wrote it.  He only actually got married for the first time this past summer I think.  And he'd been looking for a girl from Morocco since about 2007!  It seems like the first few that he found rejected him.  Read through his previous posts starting back with the oldest pages and you will see what I mean.  He's been on and off this forum for years trying to figure out the sponsorship process for his potential Moroccan bride(s).  Like I said, I "think" he actually did get married this past summer.  I know I have about 3 pages of PMs from him asking about every step of the process!

Oh ... thanks for the heads-up. Now I can sleep better ... :-)

[MIB]

Joecreosta, I agree with you 100%. I am American, met a Moroccan girl on line, went there, she took me to her family, I returned filed for fiancee' visa for her, sent her ticket & spending money. She without telling me changed the reservation 2 days earlier, by the time I opened company's mail informing me of the change she was already in NY. Later over FB  she asked for $10,000 to get married , then cut off after letting me know she was in Florida. 2 years of romance down the drain and hurt to recover from. Wonder if she was human Don't feel like going on anymore.

[cissino]

Bon, bah lá je suis bouche bée! ...
Vraiment rien a dire
It' s shocking...

[MIB]

Cissino, "nothing to say" is right....everything to experience....and not a good experience, I think even the family was involved. I review the pics and they all look genuine.