Wow i thought this forum was already confusing enough.Listen i just want to put my opinnion in.I dont think anyone should ever get married to someone without spending some good quality time with eachother cousins or not,arranged or not.Who knows who someone may like,be attracted to.I understand there are customs to which people are acustomed to but do you really want to married to someone you have not spent time with,this just seems crazy to me.
I cant immagine marring someone i never spent much time with.Just makes no sense,do you want to married to someone who,sucks in bed,has a bad attitude,treats you like a slave,talks bad to you ,and you find this out after marriage,ugg.
So confused now.What ever happened to courtship,love,friendship before marriage?


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