Kingston,Jamaica

[CharlieD10]

Staring at his itinerary right now, Nae, yes he is!!! 

[jahlove]

Finally Charlie.. congrats mi love.

Oh well lonely... at least you're getting some work done, keeping your mind and body totally busy my dear that certainly helps.  Sorry about the disappointing and misleading email again.

Congratulation mr. nae on the new job offer, that a nice position to be in right about now.

[CharlieD10]

Thanks jahlove

Oh Nae, congrats to Mr. Nae on the new job!  Every mikkle mek a mukkle, he will get something long term in time!  For now, he is gaining experience and learning the way of things in the Canadian workforce, he'll be fine.

[SmoothiesQueen]

Congrats CharlieD...that must be exciting.

Congrats to Mr.Nae on the job...

I'm back to the grindstone today!!

A likkle quote I like:

" People make a place...therefore a place is only as good as the people in it"

[canuck0469]

We3ll some congrats get to go out to the men on the forum

CONGRATS MR CHARLIE AND CONGRATS MR NAE, well done mi frens dem.

This is for you both, follow the rules very carefully

This is a game called bedroom golf and it is ok to try this a home or in Negril

Each player shall furnish his own equipment for play, normally one club and two balls.
Course played on must be approved by the owner of the hole.
Unlike outdoor golf, the object is to get the club in the hole and keep the balls out of the hole.
For most effective play, the club should have a firm shaft. Course owners are permitted to check shaft stiffness before play begins.
Course owners reserve the right to restrict the length of the club to avoid damage to the hole.
The object of the game is to take as many strokes as necessary until the course owner is satisfied that the play is complete. Failure to do so may result in being denied permission to play the course again!
It is considered bad form to begin playing the hole immediately upon arrival at the course. The experienced player will normally take time to admire the entire course, with special attention to well formed bunkers.
Players are cautioned not to mention other courses they have played on or are currently playing, to the owner of the course being played. Upset course owners have been known to damage a player's equipment for this reason.
Players are encouraged to have proper rain gear along, just in case.
Players should assure themselves that their match has been properly scheduled, particularly when a new course is being played on for the first time. Previous players have been known to become irate if they discover someone else playing what they consider to be a private course.
Players should not assume a course is in shape for play at all times. Some players may be embarrassed if they find the course to be temporarily under repair. Players are advised to be extremely tactful in this situation. More advanced players will find alternate means of play when this is the case.
Players are advised to obtain the course owner's permission before attempting to play the back nine.
Slow play is encouraged; however, players should be prepared to proceed at a quicker pace, at least temporarily, at the course owners request.
It is considered outstanding performance, time permitting, to play the same hole several times in one match.
The course owner will be the sole judge of who is the best player.
Players are advised to think twice before considering membership at a golf course. Additional assessments may be levied by the course owner and the rules are subject to change at any time. For this reason, many players prefer to continue playing on several different courses.

[nae-nae]

thanks everyone for the well wishes!!

charlie - I'm not sure it was my positive vibes that helped ... it may have been your hubby's bb gun lol   no matter what it was, I'm very happy for you both!!!!  So now you have plans for the weekend....getting ready to see hubby 

nice quote smoothiesQueen!!

canuck - I'll make sure hubby reads your post tonight...he always looks forward to your jokes

hey jahlove, hope you're having a good day. 

lonely wife - get some sleep!!! lol   glad you're keeping busy!

[proper]

Congrats on the good news ladies... how about you send me some of that positive vibes nae lol, seemed to haved worked for charlie.

[ladyposh]

Congrats Charlie...I am happy that Hubby will be with you in a matter of hours!!!!! YEAH!!!!

Nae congrats on the new job for Mr.Nae!!!!!

People what is KGN dealing with?  Dem need fir wake up man!!!! Dem a sleep out the work man....lol... Dem need some Tim Horton's coffeee fi wake dem up...lol

[nae-nae]

no problem proper - positive vibes for everyone today     you may want to ask charlie for hubby's bb gun just in case 

thanks proper and ladyposh!!

[canuck0469]

well it is Friday night and all is quiet in KG for the weekend. Doing performance reviews all week and just couldn't resist showing what I'm going to put on a few of them

Have an awesome weekend all


1. "Since my last report, this employee has reached rock bottom and has started to dig."
2. "I would not allow this employee to breed."
3. "This employee is really not so much of a has-been, but more of a definite won't be."
4. "Works well when under constant supervision and cornered like a rat in a trap."
5. "When she opens her mouth, it seems that it is only to change feet."
6. "He would be out of his depth in a parking lot puddle."
7. "This young lady has delusions of adequacy."
8. "He sets low personal standards an then consistently fails to achieve them."
9. "This employee is depriving a village somewhere of an idiot."
10. "This employee should go far, and the sooner he starts, the better."
11. "Got a full 6-pack, but lacks the plastic thing to hold it all together."
12. "A gross ignoramus -- 144 times worse than an ordinary ignoramus."
13. "He doesn't have ulcers, but he's a carrier."
14. "I would like to go hunting with him sometime."
15. "He's been working with glue too much."
16. "He would argue with a signpost."
17. "He brings a lot of joy whenever he leaves the room."
18. "When his IQ reaches 50, he should sell."
19. "If you see two people talking and one looks bored, he's the other one."
20. "A photographic memory but with the lens cover glued on."
21. "A prime candidate for natural de-selection."
22. "Donated his brain to science before he was done using it."
23. "Gates are down, the lights are flashing, but the train isn't coming."
24. "Has two brains: one is lost and the other is out looking for it."
25. "If he were any more stupid, he'd have to be watered twice a week."
26. "If you give him a penny for his thoughts, you'd get change."
27. "If you stand close enough to him, you can hear the ocean."
28. "It's hard to believe that he beat out 1,000,000 other sperm."
29. "One neuron short of a synapse."
30. "Some drink from the fountain of knowledge; he only gargled."
31. "Takes him 2 hours to watch 60 minutes."
32. "The wheel is turning, but the hamster is dead."

[CharlieD10]

LMAO, canuck!!!  Seen those before, but they never get old!!! Bahahaha!!!

[RandysGirl]

Thanks Canuck!! I am in the middle of performance reviews myself, I really can use some of them that is for sure. I actually fired someone in the middle of a p. review last week because the guy told me to f myself with my performance review  lol... (thank goodness I grew thicker skin from my time living in Jamaica- I now can deal with confrontation with a lift of my eyebrows.... a couple of years ago that situation would have made me cry- not any more!!!!)

Quiet week in Kingston, they must have been really busy for alot of us to get some good news next week I am guessing....

Have a wonderful weekend everyone!

PS my quilt is getting the better of me but I am gonna finish it no matter what hahaha...

[lonely_wife]

Good morning again!!!

I was really busy yesterday so never had a chance to update after my stuff came in thankfully I did get some good sleep after it was in... I am very happy with my purshace!!! 

Charlie.. Youpi!!! Hubby is coming well if he gets bored during the week when you're at work tell your hubby to give mines a call lol is day off is wednesday I'm sure he wouldn't mind going for a beer lol!!!

Nae!!! I did get some sleep lol just had to wait and trust me girl I was so excited when they arrived I could barely close an eye but I was able to finally.. Have fun bed shopping this weekend Have a good weekend with your son and hubby and hope you have a good girl nights movie:D

Proper... I think Nae just has to keep doing her thing cause she sending good vibes for real...

Ladyposh... We need to buy Tim Hortons coffee grains and send them to Kingston lol maybe that will wake them hahahahahahahaha

Canuck.. thanks for keeping us laughing Hope you're not missing the Mrs too much

Randysgirl.. some people are so ignorant wow... i can't believe this.. well good for you for doing that... btw keep up the good work cause we want to see that quilt... lol hahaha

I wish everyone has a wonderful weekend it will be a quiet working one for me just like usual lol I do have friends coming from out of town and we are doing dinner tonight so that will be fun!!!

[lonelycanadianwifey]

Hey everyone

I am posting possibly out of pain MABEY out of greif or sadness NOT sure! And kind of embarrassed and scared to spread all this DRAMA over the internet BUT i cannot  keep this inside me for any longer!! I need you guys NEW and OLD ...
I AM crying as i write this ...me and hubby are split Because of me...I left him KICKED him out and basically told him to F off...

I have let so many people (My mother) tell me how to live in my marriage how to raise my kids and so forth ...And i think I have done some damage...About just after Jamaica coming home ...I did all this and
filled a restraining order...Because he was living next me with a neighbour and he didn't have anywhere to go ...(my poor baby....I say this now) I filled the restraining order out of spite ANGER ,resentment control YADDA YADDA ....We went to court on wensday he walked in with one old AZZ woman 35-40 Some odd ( sorry about saying old but it pi$$ed me off) fat nasty thing ..PARDON ME ...Still pissed ...Says he payed her to help him file his papers and obtain a lawyer 200 hundred bucks..I still am having a hard time believeing what i SAW...and what he says

Well court didnt go as well as i thought it would (thank god) because he didnt hand in his motion 4 days prior to court...and the judge ajourned court exactly 1 week from that day so he had a chance to defend himself ...I have decided not to do this I WANT MY LIFE BACK...i made a huge mistake i threw the man i love out in the street and said hurtfull and pathetic things to him ...Our BLOWOUT fight just ineviatably cause this chain of reaction...I am soo regretfull for my actions...
After court i reterned to work...When i got home i seen the number of were he was staying on my caller ID ..I thought OMG he is trying to serve me court papers( because he has to do that )...And he is having his Gfreind( at the time i was convinced he was with her) do it ....I called the COPS ...told them about what i thought was happening and told them  to contact him and tell him and his gfreind(who ithought at the time was) not to contact me at all. To mail me the papers ...

The POLICE told me they would call him later that evening upon returning from work (No biggy No drama  ...SO I THOUGHT) So after i hubg up the phone i was cleaning the house and i found the motion he wrote in the court house....I didnt relaize that the duty council handed it to me in the court room...I started to read....

He goes on and say things like i keep fighting him and i am harrasing his family back a JA telling them bad things about him  A family member of mine who he works with threataned him to cut his leggs off so he stated that!...Saying i dont want to be with him cause i say hes old .. i DID SAY That!!  :(HE SAYS THIS ...

"I still love her but she doesnt love me anymore..

"my heart just F  @  cking broke into and thousand tiny small peices ""...And reality hit me....

WHAT HAVE I DONE!! MY BABY .That feeling of sometimes we take for granted someone will always be there...

I Immeadiatly called him at work...He comes on the phone ...

I said i want to ask you a question ...He Pauses ..SILENCE...Then he goes yah!!

I said did you call me last night ...He said NO ...Then i started to cry and i said ...

"Do you still love me" He says yes i do, there has never been a woman i have loved more than you ..I told you i would never stop ...

i just started to cry and cry and cry ...and i asked him about the woman ...he told me he payed her 200 hundred dollars to file his papers and stuff cause he didnt know nothing or how or where..I was still angry about it and having a hard time beleiving it.. why this OOMAN..He kept reasuring me NO NO NO ...Still i wasnt convinced...
I then told him i callled the COPS and to ignore the phone call later that it was suppose to be a call just telling him what i said  we both agreed to talk once i and him returned from work on the phone..He said to me i am lookiing forward to that ..

I went to work ...very happy and encouraged about that evening ..When i get home a different stopry unravelled...
Found out the police came right to the house ...And basically tore him a new one ...Told him they would throw his azzz in jail if they have to come talk to him 1 more time ...
He wouldnt even talk to me on the phone the guy who he is syaing with said he refused to give him the phone cause he was under strict orders NOT TO TALK OR COMMUNICATE WITH ME..I eventually got him to come out of the house and found out that woman was there ...I LOST IT.I ened up chasing down the road cause i was so angry and he thought i was going to attack him  ..He kept saying that she was there to help with the court papers and that they were just returned form the polica station and he payed 75$ for something that i didnt catch what !0

I saw her in the window i called her out SCREAMING THAT IS MY effin husband and ray ray CALLED HER A GORILLA ....SHE LEFT THE WINDOW ...I was just irate and he kept saying he was scared of me and my family that he has never been so ashamed hurt embarrassed...

he kept saying he loved me and that he wanted to work it out BUT until this court thing is thrown out he want to keep a distance because he is afraid of going to JAIL!

Then to further talk to me any onger he told me i had to have the COPS reasure him that he could talk to me and that he wouldnt go to jail...SO I DID ...after that we talk for a few hours...about his and that ...and i kept saying that woman there ...YES she is waiting for a ride...finally he says she wasnt ..I asked him to come home so i could hold him a hig him up i was in soo much pain ...i needed some confort...He declined he said that he wanted to keep a distance anhd untill i throw this out cause he is afraid he was cooking a pot to nyam and he hadnt bthed yet and he had to leave for work at 6am.,..I was thinking that OOMAN was still there thats why he wouldn't come over... :'

i kept saying that ...he kept saying what you think i am a lier...do you want to come over here garrey is in the shower and i am cooking ..Look let me think about coming over let me sleep on it and mabeyILL come over after work ..what time you get off...MY PHONE DIED...
well I fell asleep...Woke up and got on the phone with the courts to try to end this ...Well i was told that i had to wait till wensday court day to throw it out ...I phone him at work ...He said that OKay bla bla but felt that he wanted to stay apart until wensday ..that his lawyer said that he still needed to put hisa motions in incase i wanted to screw him ...He said i am scared and when wensday happens we will go togther and end this and then we can move on ...

He called on his next break...and i pleaded with him to see me and he kept saying NO not till this stuff is dealt with ...Then all of a sudden he like i going to my freinds house tonight ( farm worker Jamaicans) that what i planned and i want go ..I kept saying chooseme please...i was like can i come there then ? He was like if you want..i was like well if you wont come home what about a hotel roomm. He went silent ..Said okay well ill talk to you tonight ..i was like can we go out for dinner and he was like yah ..i was OMGH thank you thank you ...

We let each other go ...I come home from work and i call him ...NO HES NOT There...I WAITED ALL NIGHT LONG HE NEVER CALLED ...

AND SO I SIT HERE WONDERING WHATS GOING ON...WHAT TO DO ....i THOUGHT ABOUT KILLING MYSELF TODAY ...IA M SO DEPRESSED AND DISTRAUGHT I HAVENT SLEPT IN DAYS ...AND I CANT EAT ..AND MY POOR UNBORN CHILD GOD SOMEONE HELP ME!









 

[chelley]

lcw...

you are a headstrong woman... whatever the outcome of this is, you WILL get thru it... cry, scream, throw pillows at anything that can't break and get out the emotions... issues are hard enough to work through, forget about when the hormones are raging and the heart is breaking... but to paraphrase a bit about what you posted a few days ago (okay i'm *censored word*izing it)... sometimes what looks like an ending might really be a new beginning...

hang in there....
xo