Kingston,Jamaica

[nae-nae]

you're very welcome! 

good point you just made....once you have everything together, photocopy everything so you have a duplicate at home in the event it gets lost

[jamwifey26]

Morning Morning Morning

Welcome to you Charlie and brownsuga!

Well today was the first day of grade 4 for my little baby. Cant believe how fast time flies. I get teary eyed every back to school day

SOANXIOUS: Hey mi fren. You good? You betta have a smile on that pretty face of yours....or else.

Canuck: Hope you have a great time and remember to do your stretches

Confused: What a predicament! I like nae's idea. Tell them you have to send away for the transcripts or something and that will take time. If that dont work just keep looking. Who knows maybe you will be all done at the time of your interview and back in Canada in no time.

Iambless: I say write all the information you have to identify you file. Both of your date of birth, place of birth, full name all that on the outside and inside of the envelope you sending it in. And send the original copy and keep a copy for yourself in case the lose it.

KMC: Bless up. Almost there girl.

NAE: How is the shred going?

GodBless: How you holding up girl. Gwaan keep the faith yah madiques...lol

LCW: Glad all is going good for you and the fam


New week peeps. Hopefully it will be a great one for us all!

[Glogirl68]

Hello everyone. Nae-nae the only way we got the file number was because IMM sent a request for RCMP clearance. If they didn't do that no idea how to get that #. Here we are at 16mths and never a AOR.
Charlie having a good amount of items showing them your marriage is legit is a good thing. Everyone here can and will be here for help and advice. Make sure every i is dotted and every T is crossed before sending it in. If you's can another set of eyes to check it over is always good.
Make sure you get the FBI clearance before sending it in. I was told by a IMM lawyer not to worry if they want one (RCMP clearance)they will ask but they probably won't, well they did. Like many here we didn't use a lawyer why pay more money however thats a choise you's make.

Hubby goes to KG tomorrow to drop off his med/police redo, marriage cert/birth papers. Little man's  mom is giving him a letter signed by the justice saying why he isn't listed on the paper for their son. I thought was something we should do in case they come back with a "why".  

Hopefully everyone will get some updates soon.  

[sheraig]

Happy Holiday!!!!

Confused & rosumel: interviews around the corna....

Confused: u are this week right??? Wow.... good luck....be calm, cool and collected. U'll be alright!!

Hey Jammy: 4 grade huh? kids growing fast dont it..blow wow man...
u having the son next yr right?

Soanxious: howdy....hope u good mama...one day closer...nuh feel nuh way!!

Cheers to a productive week.....CHC updates...Please 

[soanxiouswifey]

Welcome Brownsuga and Charlie....

Jammy & Sheraig big up unuself. Until i get that call i dont think i will be content...not feeling to hot today at all, feeling a bit down but i am sure as the day goes on my spirits will be lifted.

Waiting for UPDATES! New week new possibilities

[confusednscared]

Happy Holiday!!!!

Confused & rosumel: interviews around the corna....

Confused: u are this week right??? Wow.... good luck....be calm, cool and collected. U'll be alright!!

Hey Jammy: 4 grade huh? kids growing fast dont it..blow wow man...
u having the son next yr right?

Soanxious: howdy....hope u good mama...one day closer...nuh feel nuh way!!

Cheers to a productive week.....CHC updates...Please 

Hey you guys, the days are getting shorter for me .... it's until next week but here I am beginning to get nervous and freaking that I don't have everything set out. I am yet to put all the stuff into a nice pile and print out the cover pages.

I need a hugeeeeeeeeeeeeeee A$$ group prayer right now. I have this mixed feeling stirring up in me because I am so not sure what they heck they will ask of me. The email I got from POS last week said I only should bring additional evidence of the rship.

Now, does this mean they are only focusing on the rship and nothing else or are they going to frigging grill me like dolphin about my immigration history back in Canada that led to my deportation. If only I can get these answers.

In any case I am going to prepare 2 sets of piles for the IO. One with my rship evidence and the other with all my immigration decisions and documents from Canada. Hopefully, everything gets sorted out on that day.

Lastly too guys, I am kinda getting scared that I am giving them tooooooooooooooooo many papers and stuff for evidence. I am already over 250 pages in evidence material with another .. LOL ... close to 300+ pictures (Wal-Mart prints and MS Word prints). Everything explained and I think for the most of it, detailed.

I have pictures from every month since our Marriage to when I left Canada and our vacations this year. I made selections but I put enough so the IO can see trends of everything.  Only thing left is to understand and go through the finances and get a better idea of how much goes where. I do know most of this stuff already but my values are kinda-sorta close or too off

If any of you in here were an Immigration Officer, would you still question this relationship being a same-sex one?

[CharlieD10]

Thanks for all the welcomes! 

I am starting slowly but surely.  The first thing we are sending off is the request for my FBI clearance.  Who knew that a trip to "find myself" in NY would come back to bite me on the behind like this?  I went to the US on a student visa, and when I came right back to Jamaica 18 months later, I got a job and forgot about going anywhere.  Now I need to prove I behaved myself.  I guess the fact that the US issued me another visa for 10 years just last year isn't proof enough, huh?

First though, as much as I hate to say it, I need to send my husband back home.  He is getting sicker every day, and I am fretting so badly every day he stays here, it isn't funny.  He refuses to leave me until he absolutely has to, and I don't want to fight with him about it, but I'm worried. 

[Godblesswife]

You are most Welcome. CharlieD, Tell Hubby he needs to be Healthy for you both, so if taht means going home and coming back when he's well do that.
You'll be fine though in terms of your application, you are doing your research and that always helps.
you'll know what not to do, and what to do to avoid delays. in most cases its not knowing stuff that tend to cause problems. but as it stands you seem one step ahead of the game.
 

so take your time and when you are sure send it off and Join us in the wait. we are waiting to pray and with you and support you.

Jamy I'm just here Battling PMS AND Kgn at the same the same time...... not nice

Godbless

[Godblesswife]

Confused the important thing is you know that they want further proof about your relationship. so just oblige them and take all you have, its better for them to say tell you we dont need all that. but be as prepared as you can be.

your relationship is genuine so you should be fine.

I dont know of Conjugal Partners approvals or denials as of yet. so difficult to say it will be easy or hard. but what I can say is once CIC make provisions to include a category for same sex couples, then you have a good chance, just as much as everyone else to succeed. but since there is no marriage Certificate. Just like Common law relationships, then the bulk of your interview may just be to satisfy the IO that your Relationship is Genuine.and if you have all them pics ETC. You should be fine.
They even ask some Married couples with kids for interviews just so they can be happy the Marriage is real so just be yourself. and before you know it you will be with your Partner soon. this is just one more step you have to take.
then it will all be over After your PP Request in a few weeks watch.
then you'll have the Job of coming on here, to support other Conjugal Partners.

On that note though Confused. follow your gut instinct if you feel you need to prepare yourself for anything else they may bring up, just do so ahead of your interview.
My Prayers are with you.


Godbless

[CharlieD10]

You are most Welcome. CharlieD, Tell Hubby he needs to be Healthy for you both, so if taht means going
 

so take your time and when you are sure send it off and Join us in the wait. we are waiting to pray and with you and support you.

Godbless

Thanks, yes, I had a hard fight convincing him that it was best if he left, he said he meant it when he took a vow to be there in sickness and in health.  I told him I want my til death do us part, and I don't mean anytime soon, LOL.

It is good to know that others have been there and done that, honestly I was feeling so lost until hubby found this page and said maybe we should go through it and see if it helps.  At one point I told him to just go home and forget me, but my husband does not do "can't".  I am grateful for the encouragement and support, it has gone a long way to making me feel better.

[kenswife]

Happy Labour Day to all
welcome Charlie!!
spoke to a friend yesterday and when she applied for her huzzy to come from kg it only took 4months because she did everything all at once fees, original docs incl.marriage cert +++ proof, she said thats y my application is taking so long because they made two requests for info first time original documents then second time passport pictures because the ones we sent the first time were stamped at the back they wanted written proof of how our relationship progressed which he already sent but they asked for it again?? im sooooooooo mad!!!!!!!everytime they request something it takes them 6 wks to look at ur file again

have a great day everyone  KW

[jamwifey26]

Soanxious: Cheer up. I not feeling to up and happy these past couple days. Just been reading as many books as I can find. It helps to take my mind of IMM.

Sheraig: Yes Man. I cant bear seeing babies these days. Makes me want another one soooo bad. Cant wait to be pregnant again.

CharlieD: Makes no sense for him to be sick here in Jamaica. Send him back to get treated and then he can return to you fit and healthy.

Confused: Take deep breaths and relax. It will all work out fine.

GODBLESS: PMS turns me into the woman in the exorcist . Man everything worry and angers me that time of the month. Plus KG on top of it! No man

[Godblesswife]

No man PMS and Immigration no gree at all at all.
in Fact PMS and Hubby no gree. lol Hubby is doing research in finding a cure for it..... poor soul.
This thing turns me into a Monster on que every month.
Hubby asked last night are you PMSing? must be a new word lol

[jamwifey26]

lol you are so right PMS and hubby dont gree at all. I turn into an angry crybaby and the poor thing dont know how to deal with me those days. Even stupid commercials make me cry....lol

[Godblesswife]

Hubby said there has to be a chill pill for this thing.
oh how I wish there was.