Ready, nuh worry yuhself! That's what we all here for, SUPPORT each other. Im sure most of us, if not all of us have come across people who feel that every jamaican man is lookin for farrin and jus interest in papers. nuh tru. It is hard to swallow, especially hearin it from people who we love. The only thing I think when I hear it now is, "we'll see". Jus have faith in ur relationship and nuh worry yuself bout da badmind people dem....
yup....thats why not one soul came from side of the family to our wedding alllll a bunch of badminded *censored word*ers...another reason why i have a hard time trusting ppl...when u cant even trust those 'closest' to u.
I was left hanging the worst of ways, every way....initially my mother had offered to pay for my WAYYYYY over priced wedding dress...then i guess as she thought and (heard) about the idea of our wedding more, she decided it was wrong, and she doesnt give her blessing or support it..... and 6 weeks before my wedding (after my dress had been custom fit) my dress had arrived at the boutique....she then decided she wasnt gonna pay for it no more .....I told her that was fine...id pay for it myself....when she heard that, she called the boutique to have them send back my dress....but luckily i had called the boutique within of minutes of her to let them know when id be in to pay the balance..they are the ones that told me about my mothers frantic call.....luckily the deposit was under my name...so they refused to return it.
AFTERRRRRRR my wedding....my mother slowly came around.....her guilt paid for my trip down for Christmas...no her and my hubby over the past few months even talk on the phone from time to time....
had a bigggggggggg full blown fight with my cousins....wish i could knock the *censored word* out of each one. had zero support....but i know what i feel...and im one stubborn chick....so i do what i want, and always success (eventually).
but yes....since we announced our engagement...felt like the months that followed all i did was fight ppl.....*censored word* did drive me mad...to the point i just said *censored word* em allllllllllll.
Hard to convince ppl of a love they cant see...but not my problem anymore....and not my husbands either....those who know us, or see us know...those who arent that priviledged...can go suck themselves
trust me ive gone through hell this past year....im just now starting to get an ease from what i had to go thru....all that in the name of love...that why when i said i sacrificed.....ppl dont knowwwwww how i mean it. Sacrificed my sanity too lmao