Sadgirl, i have read your posts and really feel for you. there is nothing worse than being forcefully separated from the person you love most in life. i really hope you dont have to wait too much longer.
my husband is irish. i pretty much put the package together myself (men arent always that good at organizing

). it was painstaking but im pretty sure i had everything in order. i took it to an immigration lawyer who looked it over and verified there was nothing missing or incomplete. we have been very lucky (so far) that this whole process has been smooth, and very fast.
really all london is doing with your case is practicing legal racism. it's not fair! but unfortunately i dont think there is much you can do about it.
whoopi congrats. i cant imagine how it feels to finally be through this process!