Friends i am worried about my sponsorship application bcuz it will take 26 months time from CHC-ISB
now i am missing two persons 1st my wife & second is my son & i don't know what to do now plzzz any advice???
It is a really hard situation. One of my lessons in life has been to see how challenging life can be. Sometimes it is so hard to see good. I think it must be particularly difficult because your son was just born. It's sad, but it may be the case that the only way this will get easier is with time.-- Perhaps there is no easy solution (especially since CIC refused you a temporary visitor visa). Perhaps all you can do is wait, and in which case, the only "solution" is to accept your situation. 26 months seems like so long, but I have to think it really won't take the full 26 months. More so, your child will still be so young at that time and you will still be able to witness many 'firsts' with him. Luckily your wife is there in the meantime and really, we are lucky in this day and age to have things like skype. It might be make you want to touch him more to see him over skype, but on the other hand, you get to see him move and the sounds he makes and he gets to see you and you two will have that connection (however feeble it feels).
On another note, is it possible for your wife and son to visit you?
Again, I am sorry because I can imagine how hard it must be. I assume you have family and friends where you are now and it would be nice to take solace in their company. you also have us here on this forum! It really is a great group.