marocbeauty
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« on: August 30, 2007, 12:35:40 pm » |
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I am writing this topic as I just found out some information about my husband that is here with me now. I am so upset. We were married last year in morocco and my sponsorship was all approved and he is here with me now. I found out that he is talking to alot of women online wanting to see them on cam and even calling them on my phone talking to them. I confronted him on a few of them but he said its not women it is his friends. But I seen the chats they are being saved on my computer and it is for sure not men. I feel that I have been scammed big time. All of you women that just married moroccan men be careful. And I know my husband is talking to some of your husbands because I know some of you. Be careful very carefull. Is it to late to send him back please any information would help me so much. I am so upset I love him so much I am so hurt right now.
Please Help me.
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marocbeauty
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« Reply #1 on: August 30, 2007, 01:11:58 pm » |
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Please I need help does anyone have any information
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« Reply #2 on: August 30, 2007, 02:26:05 pm » |
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Hi Please I need help does anyone have any information
If he is "landed" you are pretty well out of luck. Plus you are responsible for him for 3 years after landing if he accepts public assistance. PMM |
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« Reply #3 on: August 30, 2007, 04:59:57 pm » |
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I am writing this topic as I just found out some information about my husband that is here with me now. I am so upset. We were married last year in morocco and my sponsorship was all approved and he is here with me now. I found out that he is talking to alot of women online wanting to see them on cam and even calling them on my phone talking to them. I confronted him on a few of them but he said its not women it is his friends. But I seen the chats they are being saved on my computer and it is for sure not men. I feel that I have been scammed big time. All of you women that just married moroccan men be careful. And I know my husband is talking to some of your husbands because I know some of you. Be careful very carefull. Is it to late to send him back please any information would help me so much. I am so upset I love him so much I am so hurt right now.
Please Help me.
That's quite devastating for you to find that out about your husband at this time. I hope you are able to work your problems out somehow. I know not everyone is honest and has integrity - that is the risk anyone takes in a relationship. I've been very fortunate to find some trustworthy (who is Moroccan). I'm not really sure what you can do at this point - you are now obligated to support him if he remains in Canada. Perhaps there is other people that have gone through this can can be of some help. All the best, T |
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marocbeauty
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« Reply #4 on: August 30, 2007, 09:46:04 pm » |
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I am sorry if I sounded so down on moroccan men. But really I was one that was reading all those posts about people putting down on moroccan men and I said the same as you Raven. I said I am married to a wonderful moroccan man and I love him so much. I still love him and if we cannot work it out it is going to take me such a long time to get over it. I did everything for him and his family omg when I think of what I did for him. It hurts so bad. It was all so good when I was with him in Morocco I had no idea that he was talking to all these women. He looks online for women he can add to his msn all the time. Boras do you think that is what a married man should do. And I know he is talking to some of your husbands because I see him talking. I dont want anyone to feel like I do right now. He acts like it is all ok and it is normal for him to talk to other women. Boras do you think its normal for him to keep asking women to go on cam with him. Do you think its ok for him to be asking them if he can call them and then use my phone to call them. I am so afraid to tell you all who I am I did talk to alot of you before when we were going through the process. I just want you women to really use your minds and think is there any suspicion or doubt or clues at all that would show that your husband will be like this and make sure he is not scamming you. I am not saying that all moroccan men are like this Boras I am sorry if I hurt you but you have to understand what I am going through right now. I am so hurt and I want it to work out with my husband but I know in my heart he will be looking for other women. Maybe someday I will tell you who I am after the hurt is gone and me and my family heals. You will be so shocked when you know who I am.
Please say a prayer for me
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« Reply #5 on: September 03, 2007, 08:50:49 pm » |
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Wow, I'm sorry to hear about this. To answer your question, it is too late to withdraw your sponsorship, as the others mentioned you are responsible for him now that he is in Canada. I hope you can work everything out with him. I know there are people all over the world who will take advantage of others, I'm am sorry if your husband turns out to be one of them.
May God grant you strength and courage
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« Reply #6 on: September 04, 2007, 08:15:38 am » |
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Marocbeauty
It's too late to withdraw your sponsorship. But it's the perfect time to take him to court and sue him for actual and emotional damages.
You'll need to prove he deceived you, of course. But it seems like you have evidence of that.
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« Reply #7 on: September 04, 2007, 08:42:07 am » |
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Dear Marcobeauty, sorry to hear about your situation. It is never too late to do the right thing. Make him pay for abusing your emotions and tearing apart your trust. I am away from my wife and my case is under process but its really annoying to know that men like him make it difficult for people who are honest and sincere in their long distance relationship and yet they have to go through torment of being tested and suspected as oppurtunist and liars like your husband. I dont know him and he hasnt done anything wrong with me so I cannot really curse him but if you are right and you do have evidence of his misconduct then you should report that to immigration authorities and even file a case in court for seperation and damage claims. Wish you all the best!
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« Reply #8 on: September 15, 2007, 02:30:18 am » |
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Sorry to hear about your troubles. I too am married to a Moroccan man who I met while on vacation in Morocco. We were introduced by a mutual friend. I think there can be a lot of pitfalls in online relationships, but that is not a moroccan thing. I went through a horrible relationship with a Canadian guy from North Bay that I met on line, so it can happen to anyone. Hell, I have been cheated on by men I lived with, it can truly happen to anyone. And any woman, if they are being honest, has gone through the same thing as you. However, I do not think all is finished with having to continue to sponsorship. My best friend was married to an english guy who she sponsored to canada - he started to cheat on her. She called immigration and suspended her sponsorship. Having said that I know that sponsorship survives divorce, so it may be worthwhile to talk to an immigration lawyer to find out if there is a loophole. I truly am sorry to hear of your troubles.
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faycal75
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« Reply #9 on: September 16, 2007, 06:43:22 pm » |
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hello i,m an algerian man not morocon i,m so soory for your hard time now. my wife is a canadian too we been maried for nearly 3 years we got maried in london we have a cute 1 year old boy i,m in algeria she is in canada any way she is sponsoring me and i,m witing to be reunited whith my family i just wont to tell you that what u r husband is doing is mad i hope it will work out for you if not there is a power of goad man like hime he shoud be thankful for what he has if he really scame you dont woory u dont have to do nothing trust me allah will punishe hime for his actes and dont forgot that bad human been r every where not just in moroco or canada or algeria anywhere in the world where ever you go there is bad and good i hope that u r husband undestand that what he is doing is rong and combac to the right way or he will deal whith goad not immigration and wish you the best
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« Reply #10 on: September 17, 2007, 12:11:47 pm » |
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It is very unfortunate on your side of course and whatever we say we won't understand your feelings at the moment. As an husband applying for immigration, believe me it is very discouraging to hear such things as I would be devistated even if a spot of thought went through my sponsoring wife's mind that all this time spent was for immigration purposes.
I don't know what the law says in Canada, but I am sure there is a way to be out of this. Regulations this strict about accepting an applicant also thought about such cases. This is not a time for you to accept your faith but time for you to take action.
But before all these ofcourse, please take your time to think what went wrong. Maybe the man once you thought loved you, still loves you. Don't forget the time spent apart for the applicant is very stressful and can cause one to make mistakes, which he might really be sorry later. As I said we can never know what you are going through, so please don't panic and think it all over again. I am sure you will find the correct path out of this problem yourself and share your better experiences here.
Best wishes
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« Reply #11 on: October 17, 2007, 08:08:53 am » |
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I am writing this topic as I just found out some information about my husband that is here with me now. I am so upset. We were married last year in morocco and my sponsorship was all approved and he is here with me now. I found out that he is talking to alot of women online wanting to see them on cam and even calling them on my phone talking to them. I confronted him on a few of them but he said its not women it is his friends. But I seen the chats they are being saved on my computer and it is for sure not men. I feel that I have been scammed big time. All of you women that just married moroccan men be careful. And I know my husband is talking to some of your husbands because I know some of you. Be careful very carefull. Is it to late to send him back please any information would help me so much. I am so upset I love him so much I am so hurt right now.
Please Help me.
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« Reply #12 on: October 17, 2007, 08:43:25 am » |
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sorry to hear about your problems with your husband, but to saw all moroccan men are no good is bad to say im married to the best man of my life and been with him in morocco for many month and togehter for 2 years and we are happy alhamdoulilah .
Wish you had a better man from Marocco.
please dont say all of them are bad
best regards
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« Reply #13 on: October 17, 2007, 08:52:08 am » |
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I just re read all the messages and feel I should write again, You say avryone will be so surprised by who you are and you seem to know Boras, Raven's Husband. This mean you posted in the forum and all of us may know you. Im sorry to hear the prince was a toad...but talk to him. tell him to be honest and talk deeply see what is the problem. is the talk with these girls flirting or he is just missing Moroccan's?
give a chance you married its for life unless you are fully un happy.
Wishing you the best isabelle
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danesnpits
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« Reply #14 on: August 26, 2008, 06:58:17 pm » |
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For any ladies that want to join this group if they think they are being scammed please come here and join. You will need a proof photo of yourself to ensure you are a lady. No men are allowed here nor are any moroccans.
groups.yahoo.com/group/Moroccan_Scammers_Worldwide/
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« Reply #15 on: August 26, 2008, 09:28:02 pm » |
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As you go through this very hard time in your life: WATCH yourself, PROTECT yourself, PROTECT your pocket...be cool headed. This WILL pass and in 10 years you will LONG way from this. So Protect your 10-years in-the-future- Self. Give him a chance if you want ( I wouldnt, cuz who wants such an selfish, disrespectful *censored word* around?), divorce him if you want, but always remember that you are legally responsible for him for the next 3 years.
Best of luck.
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