hi
this is not about someone being against you but it's about you doubting your will and capacity to move to canada.
if you really want to move to canada all you need to do is to go to
www.cic.gc.ca and get the info you need to start
your immigration process.
it's not excluded that we need others advices and critics to succeed but it has to take our own
will and work to get there.
no one is against you...you're against yourself...
good luck