We live together so there really isn't any phone records (we both have pay as you go phones and text eachother while he is at work...but that's about it)
Can you get a print out of your messages? Showing a few from every week of your relationship would help.
Even his work will not let him change his life insurance to my name. We went in and tried this last week and they said no it has to stay the same. (currently his beneficiary is his ex wife...) sounds a bit corrupt to me.
He should talk to them again to change it, because obviously if a couple breaks up, the ex should no longer be the beneficiary.
For anyone that lives with their significant other, how are you proving the relationship? Are pictures and my joint bank account with him really enough?
You can get affidavits or letters from family, friends, the landlord, neighbours, your boss, religious leaders, etc., stating that they know you are a couple and believe the relationship is genuine.
If you buy anything for your home, try to show you two bought it together - on debit from your joint account, or on a joint credit card, for example.
(We also do have phone records and skype calls and text messages from when we were not living together, 11 months approximately.)
That's good evidence.