Hi everyone. I know that you are all here (with the exception of Joe) asking and advising each other on how to marry or get you Moroccan spouse into Canada. I am a firm believer in love TRUE LOVE and I am not here to knock Moroccan's or to try to persuade anyone from following their hearts. My situation is text book really...we met on line, he swept me off my feet. I went to Morocco, met him and decided YES, this is the man for me. I was very sad when I had to leave and was in tears missing him after I got home. Went back to Morocco a second time, this time for marriage but everything was different. I chalked it up to stress, mostly his stress because he and his friend ran around Rabat, going here and waiting there getting all the documents and stamps required for the marriage...well you know the drill. I thought "ok, once we are married, we can relax and enjoy time with each other...you know a Honeymoon". However, I could not shake the fact that something was very very different and it went beyond document stress. A few times I wondered if he even liked me. Where is the romance and tenderness, it can't be a cultural thing...it's human thing gosh darn it! When I spoke of it to him, he took insult that I questioned his love for me. There were alot of other things that happened, not everything was bad but it was not what I had expected.
I stayed an extra week hoping things would turn to normal but instead I found myself counting down the days until my departure back to Canada. When I got off the plane, I seriously considered kissing the ground. I so can not live in Islam!
Since I have been back he has been filling out the forms for his Visa Application and just about ready to do his medical. The only thing he talks about with me is the application. Call Immigration and ask about this and ask about that, is pretty much the majority of the conversation. Of course there is the standard, how are you, how was your day..blah blah blah. But outside of that, he really does not have much else to say to me. Have faith he has been telling me since we met. Well, you know what, I think I just about have had enough of this! So now, I want to know what is involved in getting a divorce? Does Canada know I married him? I really do not want to return to Morocco and obviously, I won't be sponsoring him into Canada. I do not even have a copy of the marriage certificate yet. Guess I should wait until he sends me everything thinking its for his Visa and then I can apply for the divorce.
Does anyone have any information on divorce, when you marry abroad and never lived together and your spouse does not have a Canadain Visa.
What a moron I am!!!!!