How do I divroce my Moroccan?

[dohhead]

Hi everyone. I know that you are all here (with the exception of Joe) asking and advising each other on how to marry or get you Moroccan spouse into Canada. I am a firm believer in love TRUE LOVE and I am not here to knock Moroccan's or to try to persuade anyone from following their hearts. My situation is text book really...we met on line, he swept me off my feet. I went to Morocco, met him and decided YES, this is the man for me. I was very sad when I had to leave and was in tears missing him after I got home. Went back to Morocco a second time, this time for marriage but everything was different. I chalked it up to stress, mostly his stress because he and his friend ran around Rabat, going here and waiting there getting all the documents and stamps required for the marriage...well you know the drill. I thought "ok, once we are married, we can relax and enjoy time with each other...you know a Honeymoon". However, I could not shake the fact that something was very very different and it went beyond document stress. A few times I wondered if he even liked me. Where is the romance and tenderness, it can't be a cultural thing...it's human thing gosh darn it! When I spoke of it to him, he took insult that I questioned his love for me. There were alot of other things that happened, not everything was bad but it was not what I had expected.
I stayed an extra week hoping things would turn to normal but instead I found myself counting down the days until my departure back to Canada. When I got off the plane, I seriously considered kissing the ground. I so can not live in Islam!
Since I have been back he has been filling out the forms for his Visa Application and just about ready to do his medical. The only thing he talks about with me is the application. Call Immigration and ask about this and ask about that, is pretty much the majority of the conversation. Of course there is the standard, how are you, how was your day..blah blah blah. But outside of that, he really does not have much else to say to me. Have faith he has been telling me since we met. Well, you know what, I think I just about have had enough of this! So now, I want to know what is involved in getting a divorce? Does Canada know I married him? I really do not want to return to Morocco and obviously, I won't be sponsoring him into Canada. I do not even have a copy of the marriage certificate yet. Guess I should wait until he sends me everything thinking its for his Visa and then I can apply for the divorce.
Does anyone have any information on divorce, when you marry abroad and never lived together and your spouse does not have a Canadain Visa.
What a moron I am!!!!!

[rgvinson777]

The person who never did anything wrong is the person who never did anything.  You're not a moron for wanting and believing. If that is the case, we are all  morons.  Right??  I think you should spend a little money and speak with a lawyer about the legalities of your marriage and what you can do about it.  Do it right away!!  I'm so sorry this happened to you.  The good thing is that you are putting a stop to it.

My very best wishes for you!!!

RGV

[pingpong292]

I am sorry to hear this happend to you but relations build on deception or false from either side cannot run very long. I am sorry to say but I feel this chap is just interested in fly to Canada like thousands of Moroccan man and womens in skype and many dating website. Take a legal advise and ask from people who know and finish it off for ever. This is not the end of life.

[angelbrat]

Just inform CIC first that you have no intention of sponsoring your husband and you now feel he married you just to get PR status in Canada.

That will sort that...and once your husband realises that you have no intention of sponsoring him...chances are he will divorce you and find someone else more willing.

He is in Morocco, you are here in Canada, unless you intend to marry someone else straight away, I really wouldn't worry too much about this.....just do some research in your own time and find out the legalities of divorce from Canada.

Block all contact with him..and get on with your life being thankful you found out what he is before he got here.

Sorry this has happened to you.....look for local love...it is probably more sustainable.....(says the British girl that fell in love with a Canadian)

[Malmo]

I have always been cautious and sceptical with regards to dating online. Why find love online when you Can meet decent people locally.
Sorry to hear about your situation.

Malmö

[heatherusa]

I have always been cautious and sceptical with regards to dating online. Why find love online when you Can meet decent people locally.
Sorry to hear about your situation.

Malmö

Not to defend online dating, but it doesn't always happen because we are looking for it.  I met my husband and the only reason I was willing to talk to him was because he lived so far away that I would never have to meet.  We fell in love by accident and have been married 12 years.  When we got together online dating was embarrassing because no one really did it, but it doesnt matter because we have endured all of the skepticism.  So it doesnt mean that we cant meet people locally, just that we fell in love with someone who didnt live nearby.