Conjugal Relationship..

[boyee6576]

I remember my husband and I sitting in a hotel room in Delhi just a day or so before I was to catch my flight home.  I would cry and he would hold me and say we have to fight and just know that we will be together no one can keep us apart forever its for short time only.  And he would cry and I would do the same for him. The drive to the airport was the most dreaded thing.  Walking into the airport without him and watching him stand there looking at me as if he had lost everything was a killer. We were totally heart broken. Its very hard to have a relationship so far apart.  You have to be strong minded since you dont see each other more than maybe once every other year.  You have to have strong strong trust between you.  We talk every day and as often through the day as we can.  I am an amature writer and he his an up and coming director.  We work on scripts together and have done a short film also.  We do whatever we can to try and be a "normal" huband and wife.  At this point I am not even sure what that is LOL.  We just keep telling ourselves its just a matter of time now and we will be together.  If its another 6 months thats ok, we want it to be sooner but after what we have had to go through for the past 7 years this is nothing. Atleast we know hes getting the visa. woohoo!!

[mamipapi]

I haven't been here for quite some time now... I can't even remember writing all those posts that I did...

But what I remember now was all those pains that I had felt..but now they're almost gone.

thanks to my husband that's always supportive of my feelings. He'll be here again next year january.

But he had also visited the philippines this year of january , too.

I'm now working as a trainer in a Korean company where I live. Where we had bought the house, wherein the IO asked why I wasn't living in. 

But now that I am here, I had acquired a job and now I'm liking my stay here.

We are on appeal. Cause my husband can't give up just yet. He still wanted for me to experience how is it living in his country.

I told him many times that it doesn't matter at all. What I want is for him to be with me. That's all.

But since what we're looking after now is just to be together no matter where would it be, the waiting wasn't that painful anymore.

even though, we really don't know what to just do now...

Thanks for everyone's reply... I do appreciate it much...