I think you need an immigration lawyer. I am pretty sure you need to be considered rehabilitated under the law before you can apply for anything in Canada.
After you get that sorted, you can marry him and he can sponsor you for PR.
If your waiting time to get officially rehabilitated is too long, you might want to consider sponsoring him to the US instead.
I thank you for your prompt reply as well as your time. I, unfortunately, cannot afford an immigration attorney. They are quite costly and this can take some time. I must do this myself. This is why I am turning to this forum and its members' knowledge and expertise. I would ask you for further clarification, if possible, for the following additional issues:
1 - I know I can apply for a TRP and attach the IMM144E (Application for Rehabilitation) form as a "For Information Only", but I would need compelling reasons why I need to come to Canada with a TRP. I am not sure that becoming a family is a compelling reason for CIC, at least on a TRP. Can I assume that it is not? What would compelling reasons be for a TRP? Could temporarily working (ie. a contract job) be a compelling reason?
2 - What is the likelihood (if I apply for only the Criminal Rehabilitation Cert.) that it will be approved?
3 - How long do they actually take. I have called all of the Canadian processing centers in the U.S. and only
one would tell me their current processing time (Seattle - "about 2 years" - to my deepest dismay), however, I know Seattle has a long processing time.
4 - Am I bound to submitting my application to Seattle due to the fact that it is the closest processing center to my place of residence? I have searched the websites and get no time frame for this paperwork category.
I have a time issue as well: My police certificates will expire on June 5, 2009. I MUST submit this paperwork in the next 2 weeks (via signature confirmation mail). I know the certificates must be no more than 3 months old upon submission of application.
I am very disheartened at the complication of this situation. Many tears have I shed due to the fact that I would like to settle into a happy family life and know I must jump through hoops due to horrible choices I made as a young adult. I have told many young people my story and implore them to choose wisely... a lifetime's penance for stupid youth decisions is a harsh reality I must accept.
Thank you again for any and all assistance and advise.