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« Reply #37605 on: October 22, 2011, 10:20:16 pm » |
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♥♥♥ Ways to love your husband ♥♥♥
♥ When you are mad at him, don't say “YOU make me furious”, rather, “This action makes me upset”. Direct your anger to the action and circumstance rather than at him.
♥ Remember that your husband has feelings, so take them into consideration.
♥ Let him chill with his friends without guilt, especially if they're good guys. Encourage him to go out, so he doesn't feel “cooped up” at home.
♥ If your husband is annoyed over a little thing you do (and you can control it), then stop doing it. Really.
♥ Learn how to tell him what you expect without him having to guess all the time. Learn to communicate your feelings.
♥ Don't get mad over small things. It's not worth it.
♥ Make jokes. If you're not naturally funny, go on the internet and read some jokes, and then tell them to him.
♥ Tell him you're the best wife ever and compliment yourself on certain things you know you're good at.
♥ Learn to make his favorite dish.
♥ Don't ever, EVER talk bad about him with friends or family unnecessarily. If they end up agreeing with you, you will see that it hits you back in the face because you get more depressed that you have a bad husband–and other people also think you have a bad husband.
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« Reply #37606 on: October 22, 2011, 10:35:10 pm » |
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is this a mistake?
JULY-2010(W)----AOR JULY17-----RE MEDICAL + PPR SEP 3 -----VISA SEP 6
No its not an error... the process started at 2010 and ended in sep 2011.... for more detailed timelines see the spreadsheet link in my signatures.
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« Reply #37607 on: October 22, 2011, 10:35:53 pm » |
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♥♥♥ Ways to love your husband ♥♥♥
♥ When you are mad at him, don't say “YOU make me furious”, rather, “This action makes me upset”. Direct your anger to the action and circumstance rather than at him.
♥ Remember that your husband has feelings, so take them into consideration.
♥ Let him chill with his friends without guilt, especially if they're good guys. Encourage him to go out, so he doesn't feel “cooped up” at home.
♥ If your husband is annoyed over a little thing you do (and you can control it), then stop doing it. Really.
♥ Learn how to tell him what you expect without him having to guess all the time. Learn to communicate your feelings.
♥ Don't get mad over small things. It's not worth it.
♥ Make jokes. If you're not naturally funny, go on the internet and read some jokes, and then tell them to him.
♥ Tell him you're the best wife ever and compliment yourself on certain things you know you're good at.
♥ Learn to make his favorite dish.
♥ Don't ever, EVER talk bad about him with friends or family unnecessarily. If they end up agreeing with you, you will see that it hits you back in the face because you get more depressed that you have a bad husband–and other people also think you have a bad husband.
Good read Ranjha! And +1 for the Aik bar reminder!
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« Reply #37608 on: October 22, 2011, 10:41:14 pm » |
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is this a mistake?
JULY-2010(W)----AOR JULY17-----RE MEDICAL + PPR SEP 3 -----VISA SEP 6
VERY NICE THXS 4 POINTING MY MISTAKE +1 FOR U. ITS SUPPOSE TO BE JULY-2010(W)----AOR JULY17-----RE MEDICAl+PPR AUG -----VISA OCT6 
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« Reply #37609 on: October 22, 2011, 11:04:39 pm » |
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Good read Ranjha!
And +1 for the Aik bar reminder!
Thanks sis, I'll add plus one in your profile as-well. May Allah bless you.
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« Reply #37610 on: October 22, 2011, 11:18:34 pm » |
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AlhamdulAllah .... got my passport back with visa yesterday @ 7:15 PM from TCS guy .... totally unexpected!!!! .. well here is my complete timeline...
Application Filed : 20th Feb 2010
AOR Received : 17th April 2010 .... n then Lambi khamooshi for a year
Re PCC&IMM forms request: 18th April 2011
Re PCC&IMM forms with additional proofs sent : 26th April 2011
Re-Med Request : 13th May 2011
Re-Med Done : 24th May 2011 from IOM Karachi
( Address disappeared from E-CAS 27th Aug and re-appeared on 30th Sept if i rem correctly)
Passport request: 6th Oct 2011
Passport Sent : 7th Oct 2011
Ecas Status Changed from In Process to Decision Made : 18th Oct 2011
Passport received with visa: 22nd Oct 2011
Total time : 1 year 8 months and 2 days since Application submission
Allah ka bht bht Shuker hai ......
God Bless you all, I'll remember all of u in my Prayers inshaallah. I really hope those who are waiting for their re-meds/PCC/PRR/Visa will soon get it and reunite with their spouses as soon as possible ... Ameen
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« Reply #37611 on: October 22, 2011, 11:22:21 pm » |
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AlhamdulAllah .... got my passport back with visa yesterday @ 7:15 PM from TCS guy .... totally unexpected!!!! .. well here is my complete timeline...
Application Filed : 20th Feb 2010
AOR Received : 17th April 2010 .... n then Lambi khamooshi for a year
Re PCC&IMM forms request: 18th April 2011
Re PCC&IMM forms with additional proofs sent : 26th April 2011
Re-Med Request : 13th May 2011
Re-Med Done : 24th May 2011 from IOM Karachi
( Address disappeared from E-CAS 27th Aug and re-appeared on 30th Sept if i rem correctly)
Passport request: 6th Oct 2011
Passport Sent : 7th Oct 2011
Ecas Status Changed from In Process to Decision Made : 18th Oct 2011
Passport received with visa: 22nd Oct 2011
Total time : 1 year 8 months and 2 days since Application submission
Allah ka bht bht Shuker hai ......
God Bless you all, I'll remember all of u in my Prayers inshaallah. I really hope those who are waiting for their re-meds/PCC/PRR/Visa will soon get it and reunite with their spouses as soon as possible ... Ameen
CONGRAT'S BROTHER
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« Reply #37612 on: October 22, 2011, 11:42:22 pm » |
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AlhamdulAllah .... got my passport back with visa yesterday @ 7:15 PM from TCS guy .... totally unexpected!!!! .. well here is my complete timeline...
Application Filed : 20th Feb 2010
AOR Received : 17th April 2010 .... n then Lambi khamooshi for a year
Re PCC&IMM forms request: 18th April 2011
Re PCC&IMM forms with additional proofs sent : 26th April 2011
Re-Med Request : 13th May 2011
Re-Med Done : 24th May 2011 from IOM Karachi
( Address disappeared from E-CAS 27th Aug and re-appeared on 30th Sept if i rem correctly)
Passport request: 6th Oct 2011
Passport Sent : 7th Oct 2011
Ecas Status Changed from In Process to Decision Made : 18th Oct 2011
Passport received with visa: 22nd Oct 2011
Total time : 1 year 8 months and 2 days since Application submission
Allah ka bht bht Shuker hai ......
God Bless you all, I'll remember all of u in my Prayers inshaallah. I really hope those who are waiting for their re-meds/PCC/PRR/Visa will soon get it and reunite with their spouses as soon as possible ... Ameen
Many congratulations and happy togetherness 
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« Reply #37613 on: October 23, 2011, 12:15:52 am » |
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Congratulations yaar! Long wait is finally over! Have a great life ahead AlhamdulAllah .... got my passport back with visa yesterday @ 7:15 PM from TCS guy .... totally unexpected!!!! .. well here is my complete timeline...
Application Filed : 20th Feb 2010
AOR Received : 17th April 2010 .... n then Lambi khamooshi for a year
Re PCC&IMM forms request: 18th April 2011
Re PCC&IMM forms with additional proofs sent : 26th April 2011
Re-Med Request : 13th May 2011
Re-Med Done : 24th May 2011 from IOM Karachi
( Address disappeared from E-CAS 27th Aug and re-appeared on 30th Sept if i rem correctly)
Passport request: 6th Oct 2011
Passport Sent : 7th Oct 2011
Ecas Status Changed from In Process to Decision Made : 18th Oct 2011
Passport received with visa: 22nd Oct 2011
Total time : 1 year 8 months and 2 days since Application submission
Allah ka bht bht Shuker hai ......
God Bless you all, I'll remember all of u in my Prayers inshaallah. I really hope those who are waiting for their re-meds/PCC/PRR/Visa will soon get it and reunite with their spouses as soon as possible ... Ameen
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« Reply #37614 on: October 23, 2011, 01:30:16 am » |
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Hmmm Currently they are working on AUG/SEP/OCT.and next Quarterly updated month are Nov/Dec/Jan OR Oct / Nov / DEc ?
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« Reply #37615 on: October 23, 2011, 01:44:58 am » |
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I have a gut feeling kay aap sahi follow nahi kar rahay  . I never heard from Ainy the right way of doing totka. ho sakta hay kay Ainy baba kisi puranay kubristaan kee sab say purani kabar par beth kar, lap top mein internet stick laga kar phir iss fourm par message karti hoon; I would say Ainy baba say aik dafa puch lo kay sahi totka kia hay aur phir aap sab (jo jo loog totka farma rahay hain) puchnay kay baad karo.... 
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« Reply #37616 on: October 23, 2011, 01:48:55 am » |
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I have a gut feeling kay aap sahi follow nahi kar rahay  . I never heard from Ainy the right way of doing totka. ho sakta hay kay Ainy baba kisi puranay kubristaan kee sab say purani kabar par beth kar, lap top mein internet stick laga kar phir iss fourm par message karti hoon; I would say Ainy baba say aik dafa puch lo kay sahi totka kia hay aur phir aap sab (jo jo loog totka farma rahay hain) puchnay kay baad karo....   OHHHHHHHHHHHHH KUBRISTAAN.....
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« Reply #37617 on: October 23, 2011, 01:50:43 am » |
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Ainy sis, I was joking.... Have you sent your passport to embassy?
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« Reply #37618 on: October 23, 2011, 01:52:43 am » |
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Ainy sis, I was joking....
Have you sent your passport to embassy?
YES I HAVE SENT
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« Reply #37619 on: October 23, 2011, 01:55:32 am » |
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YES I HAVE SENT that's great; I hope you will hear good news soon - inshaAllah! Have you started your shopping?
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