CHC, Islamabad Spouse Sponsorship Timeline 2009 -2010

[Danny4450]

I was just reading older posts, and read what happened with durram. I hope this never happens with anyone else, I was so shocked and hurt to read about his dilemma. Imagine waiting for your spouse for two years, spending so much time waiting for someone to arrive, building up hopes inside all along, making plans and dreaming about a good family life...all shattered and left only sorrows behind. I pray this sort of thing never happens to anyone.

I've read a few posts from past couple of days and have observed that some people have been complaining about long distance relationships, about their spouses' attitudes, et cetera. I am no relationship expert, in fact I'm new to this thing just like anyone here, and please forgive me for my intentions are not to hurt or offend anyone. However, I would still like to say that don't share your personal feelings with others. You don't have to tell others that your spouse is boring or doesn't treat you right, or fights with you over the phone or any other thing for that matter. You are only humiliating yourself can't you see that? Durram clearly had problems, and I pray that Allah shows mercy on him and takes his sorrows away. Ya all should know that this long distance is nothing compared to what living together in actuality means. If we work on our relationships and learn to appreciate our spouses from the outset and especially during this time (which I don't regard as tough as living together) I am sure that we will have a meaningful and happy life when we unite IA.

I do not intend to offend anyone by writing this message, many may not agree with me but seriously I don't care. I only wish that no one ever has to face embarrassment by the hands of their loved ones. I wish you all the very best of luck, and may Allah always be there with everyone to guide them and shower His blessings on every relationship.

+1 .. I completely agree with everything you said.

[ayesha_a]

Agreed.

[khan82]

I was just reading older posts, and read what happened with durram. I hope this never happens with anyone else, I was so shocked and hurt to read about his dilemma. Imagine waiting for your spouse for two years, spending so much time waiting for someone to arrive, building up hopes inside all along, making plans and dreaming about a good family life...all shattered and left only sorrows behind. I pray this sort of thing never happens to anyone.

I've read a few posts from past couple of days and have observed that some people have been complaining about long distance relationships, about their spouses' attitudes, et cetera. I am no relationship expert, in fact I'm new to this thing just like anyone here, and please forgive me for my intentions are not to hurt or offend anyone. However, I would still like to say that don't share your personal feelings with others. You don't have to tell others that your spouse is boring or doesn't treat you right, or fights with you over the phone or any other thing for that matter. You are only humiliating yourself can't you see that? Durram clearly had problems, and I pray that Allah shows mercy on him and takes his sorrows away. Ya all should know that this long distance is nothing compared to what living together in actuality means. If we work on our relationships and learn to appreciate our spouses from the outset and especially during this time (which I don't regard as tough as living together) I am sure that we will have a meaningful and happy life when we unite IA.

I do not intend to offend anyone by writing this message, many may not agree with me but seriously I don't care. I only wish that no one ever has to face embarrassment by the hands of their loved ones. I wish you all the very best of luck, and may Allah always be there with everyone to guide them and shower His blessings on every relationship.

You are right .......and may Allah Help durram to get reunite with his wife and Allah remove all these problems from his life and Allah bless all spouses in peace and love with each other............how ever I know long distance relationships are a bit hard ,but if you love each other and if you have understanding no one can break your life up and down is apart of life ,but we should take care of each other in any stage .......Mashallah I know my husband from last 10 years and it has been 2 years since our married ,but every day pass love and respect increase in our relation Mashallah coz we compromise ........ I just say compromise is the best thing to keep ur relation strong and happy

[sahibzada_2010]

You are right .......and may Allah Help durram to get reunite with his wife and Allah remove all these problems from his life and Allah bless all spouses in peace and love with each other............how ever I know long distance relationships are a bit hard ,but if you love each other and if you have understanding no one can break your life up and down is apart of life ,but we should take care of each other in any stage .......Mashallah I know my husband from last 10 years and it has been 2 years since our married ,but every day pass love and respect increase in our relation Mashallah coz we compromise ........ I just say compromise is the best thing to keep ur relation strong and happy

I never knew long distance relationship would be that hard since I got married a few months ago. Believe me my and I are going crazy without living together. Alhamdullilah we love eachother soon much that we promised if we have any kind of problem we will not let third person to come in our relationship because the third person is always shaytan and spoil your relationship. We know each other for a less than a year know but I have to alhamdulilah we have so much understanding and patience.

[alpha1980]

Salam Siskhan, i hope u and your family well. I m sure this week u will have good news about your PPR back. I m still awaiting for my PPR. I hope ill have PPR this week InshAllah.

[lonly widout hubby]

I was just reading older posts, and read what happened with durram. I hope this never happens with anyone else, I was so shocked and hurt to read about his dilemma. Imagine waiting for your spouse for two years, spending so much time waiting for someone to arrive, building up hopes inside all along, making plans and dreaming about a good family life...all shattered and left only sorrows behind. I pray this sort of thing never happens to anyone.

I've read a few posts from past couple of days and have observed that some people have been complaining about long distance relationships, about their spouses' attitudes, et cetera. I am no relationship expert, in fact I'm new to this thing just like anyone here, and please forgive me for my intentions are not to hurt or offend anyone. However, I would still like to say that don't share your personal feelings with others. You don't have to tell others that your spouse is boring or doesn't treat you right, or fights with you over the phone or any other thing for that matter. You are only humiliating yourself can't you see that? Durram clearly had problems, and I pray that Allah shows mercy on him and takes his sorrows away. Ya all should know that this long distance is nothing compared to what living together in actuality means. If we work on our relationships and learn to appreciate our spouses from the outset and especially during this time (which I don't regard as tough as living together) I am sure that we will have a meaningful and happy life when we unite IA.

I do not intend to offend anyone by writing this message, many may not agree with me but seriously I don't care. I only wish that no one ever has to face embarrassment by the hands of their loved ones. I wish you all the very best of luck, and may Allah always be there with everyone to guide them and shower His blessings on every relationship.

u shld not be telling ppl wat to do , n wat not........ everybody has their own mind...... n way of takin thngssssssss.................
so KEEP UR THNG  N RESERVATION TO UR SELF.......................... I WID APPRECIATED THANKZZZZZZZ............

[lonly widout hubby]

You are right .......and may Allah Help durram to get reunite with his wife and Allah remove all these problems from his life and Allah bless all spouses in peace and love with each other............how ever I know long distance relationships are a bit hard ,but if you love each other and if you have understanding no one can break your life up and down is apart of life ,but we should take care of each other in any stage .......Mashallah I know my husband from last 10 years and it has been 2 years since our married ,but every day pass love and respect increase in our relation Mashallah coz we compromise ........ I just say compromise is the best thing to keep ur relation strong and happy

SO TRUEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE............................. LOVE U MY SIS

[lonly widout hubby]

I never knew long distance relationship would be that hard since I got married a few months ago. Believe me my and I are going crazy without living together. Alhamdullilah we love eachother soon much that we promised if we have any kind of problem we will not let third person to come in our relationship because the third person is always shaytan and spoil your relationship. We know each other for a less than a year know but I have to alhamdulilah we have so much understanding and patience.

WOWWWW well saiddddddddddddd

[missingmyjaan]

This is such a gross and nauseating idea originated by someone who needs more than one type of referral to specialists ......... please read carefully before you post and dont make people throw up in particular if they are reading such a grotesque of nature ideas after breakfast .......... and if someone really agrees to see his/her  spouse as as sibling........ feel free to do so in private and please dont bring islam in it............. this is the weirdest fantasy since Alice tumbled in rabbit hole of wonderland

im sorry you found it disturbing but you really misunderstood the point. ALL muslims are brothers and sisters in islam. It does not mean biological brothers and sisters, rather brothers and sisters in FAITH. obviously biological brothers and sisters cant get married.

[zs101]

u shld not be telling ppl wat to do , n wat not........ everybody has their own mind...... n way of takin thngssssssss.................
so KEEP UR THNG  N RESERVATION TO UR SELF.......................... I WID APPRECIATED THANKZZZZZZZ............

Hey lady I meant no offence to anyone, not to you, not to anyone else in this forum. I am not telling anyone to do anything. I am just speaking my mind and it is my right as is yours and everyone else's. And relax, you don't have to put the caps on and shout. Please, if you think you are civilized then act like a civilized person. My apologies if my earlier post offended you, but I have every right to say what I feel.

[became-a-loner]

im sorry you found it disturbing but you really misunderstood the point. ALL muslims are brothers and sisters in islam. It does not mean biological brothers and sisters, rather brothers and sisters in FAITH. obviously biological brothers and sisters cant get married.

Indeed I was not referring to biological siblings but even to consider your spouse as a sibling in the name of Islam is a disturbing thought .........  I dont think Islam has anything to do with this and such controversies should not carry reference to the religion ............. otherwise the expression of ur thoughts are protected under freedom of speech act of Canada  ..... my only objection is that you are making it look like an idea of Islam ........... no offence to you though

[zs101]

Indeed I was not referring to biological siblings but even to consider your spouse as a sibling in the name of Islam is a disturbing thought .........  I dont think Islam has anything to do with this and such controversies should not carry reference to the religion ............. otherwise the expression of ur thoughts are protected under freedom of speech act of Canada  ..... my only objection is that you are making it look like an idea of Islam ........... no offence to you though

I don't think the author meant it in a literal sense lol otherwise it'd be a sin.

[became-a-loner]

I don't think the author meant it in a literal sense lol otherwise it'd be a sin.

I know but why to call brother and sister ......... may be next thing is that we are all fathers and mothers brotherhood or uncles and auties brotherhood (that will offend women for sure) to be called auties I mean............. or may be Hell's Angels brotherhood or Arian Gang brotherhood............. sounds better than calling your spouse a sister or brother ....... take it easy...........forget it

[zs101]

I know but why to call brother and sister ......... may be next thing is that we are all fathers and mothers brotherhood or uncles and auties brotherhood (that will offend women for sure) to be called auties I mean............. take it easy...........forget it

Lol i know where ya comin from, but you see it actually is true. The first marriage was between Hazrat Adam and Amma Hawwa, Adam and Eve as we know, and then they had kids, their kids had kids and so on. This all happened by the order of Allah, He knows best, we are only humans and will not understand everything, we have limited imagination. 

[Quiet Storm]

Brothers and Sisters


Please don't relate unauthenticated reviews and ideas with ISLAM. Our religion speaks on all matters much better so please consult an authentic person on such issues. Don't get sinful by misguiding masses.
I hope this discussion gets closed now.


Jazak ALLAH