s_design
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« Reply #54990 on: May 04, 2012, 11:56:46 pm » |
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AOA S_DESIGN,
I will pray for you that you will get a good life and plus good wife .I donot know i you remember but i remember that you helped me alot to make a letter to explain on going relation for me and my husband.whwn i saw that is you i felt very bad but their is nothing much we can do expect pray for you and also for your future.some times life is very tough to face so be brave and donot lose hope .you will INSHALLAH find someone who will have respect , care,love and effection for you.May ALLAH clear all the hurdles in your life and you will live happly forever.GOD help those who help themselves.
Take care and donot be depress we all are with you.
I remember you sis, and I prayed for you many time because I remember you shared your circumstances with me and I was really worried for you. I hope you are doing better now. Thank you for your love and support. I really happy that I am part of this forum. |
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« Reply #54991 on: May 05, 2012, 12:00:35 am » |
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Brother it seems to me u r still 10 yrs old kid,, be a man and control what u need to control love and emotions are secondary things. And ur spouse has some psychologic problem she like drama in her life.... Go back home and do what u need to do.... Do rukhsati and take her on honeymoon than u will see what happen...
Make bold decisions don't be emotional
And those who are telling u that u made right decision are wrong
Maybe she deserves someone like you, who says just shut up and do what I am asking you to do and I dont give a sh!t about love and emotions. You can call me 10 years old or 5 but thats not the kind of person I am. People who are telling me its the right decision, they are saying that after considering the kind of person I am. That is why they are saying it is the right decision for ME. |
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lonly widout hubby
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Category........: FAM
Visa Office......: islmabad
Doc's Request.: sep 2010 &" refill-forms+ repcc) 2nd jan 2012
Nomination.....: RPRF Fee letter "28th march 2012"
AOR Received.: sep 2010 ( dated aug)
File Transfer...: aug 2010
Med's Request: feb 2nd 2012 (remedical ws sent on 28th dec 2011 , but we never recieved it , ask to resend on 24th jan)
Passport Req..: 21st july 2012 ! Allah ka shukar !
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« Reply #54992 on: May 05, 2012, 12:10:24 am » |
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Maybe she deserves someone like you, who says just shut up and do what I am asking you to do and I dont give a sh!t about love and emotions. You can call me 10 years old or 5 but thats not the kind of person I am. People who are telling me its the right decision, they are saying that after considering the kind of person I am. That is why they are saying it is the right decision for ME.
DEAR S-DESIGN bro i m really sorry for wat u been through ,..... BUT SERIOUSLLY SPEAKING I WUD HVE DONE D SAME , IF MY HUBBY RESPONDED LIKE SHE DID .......... U HAD LOT OF PATIENCE I MUST SAY DAT U TRIED SO HARD TO CHNGE HER AND TUK SO MUCH TIME , N I BELIVE BEING A WOMEN .... ITS A WIFE DUTY TO FULLFILL ALL KINDS OF NEEDS OF A HUSBAND , ESP EMOTIONALLLLLLLLLLL COS GUYS R EMOTIONALL BLOCKED ......THEY NEED SOME ONE TO SHARE WATS HAPPENING TO THM IN WORK N FAMILY N IN MIND ...... some one WHO is There part ...like we call better-half Wify....... N WHO wont judge him ..... n u wont hold any grudges agst him ..... BROTHER U WHERE Absolutely CORRECT ............. IN WAT U WANTD FROM HER ........N UR DECISION IS RITEEEEEEEE........ INSHALLAHHH ALLAH LL DO D BEST FOR U |
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KHAN05
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« Reply #54993 on: May 05, 2012, 12:11:30 am » |
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Maybe she deserves someone like you, who says just shut up and do what I am asking you to do and I dont give a sh!t about love and emotions. You can call me 10 years old or 5 but thats not the kind of person I am. People who are telling me its the right decision, they are saying that after considering the kind of person I am. That is why they are saying it is the right decision for ME.
Well done wish u good luck but remember u need to change otherwise zindagi jedi musalsal hai koi asan tho nahi.... And u will learn what love is when u will get the one who will love u.... And I am still saying ur decision is not rite Wish u find a canadian "........" Malolay Cheers |
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« Reply #54994 on: May 05, 2012, 12:17:59 am » |
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Bhai i am not tellin him to leave her... i was the first to post n tell him to think bout it but its his life decision./.... n i agree wit u girls some are different back there... but again s_design knos better wat he is doing in his life... we are no one to tell him anyhitng we can advice him n talk wit him which i did but he is makin his decision himself... I wish i could have then stay together n be happy n i always pray that this stuff never happens in anyones life... still s_design bhai THINK IT realllli HARDD for a week or soo n then make a decision  I understand sis , i am not saying that u said something . I just posted a reply on ur post .............. I think ,,,, girls are very hard to understand ........... some of sis might explain s_design 's situation better .......... about what his wife said.......... I think he should ask from some one who is in Pakistan and is from pretty similar circumstances .................... |
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« Reply #54995 on: May 05, 2012, 12:21:25 am » |
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Need some help so plzzzzzzz help me out today my husband went to do his remed but dr didn't give him anything? now we r thinking how we going to tell chc that we have done remed? any idea guys? plz if u guys know what to do plz lets us know thanks... koi be asa nahe forum main jo mujy ess question ka reply day?  |
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« Reply #54996 on: May 05, 2012, 12:25:46 am » |
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Need some help so plzzzzzzz help me out today my husband went to do his remed but dr didn't give him anything? now we r thinking how we going to tell chc that we have done remed? any idea guys? plz if u guys know what to do plz lets us know thanks... koi be asa nahe forum main jo mujy ess question ka reply day? Did he get Payment receipt.If not then ask him to go back to the doctor and take payment receipt with stamp on it. |
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lonly widout hubby
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Category........: FAM
Visa Office......: islmabad
Doc's Request.: sep 2010 &" refill-forms+ repcc) 2nd jan 2012
Nomination.....: RPRF Fee letter "28th march 2012"
AOR Received.: sep 2010 ( dated aug)
File Transfer...: aug 2010
Med's Request: feb 2nd 2012 (remedical ws sent on 28th dec 2011 , but we never recieved it , ask to resend on 24th jan)
Passport Req..: 21st july 2012 ! Allah ka shukar !
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« Reply #54997 on: May 05, 2012, 12:27:25 am » |
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My mother did istikahra long time ago but she got a negative result but she dismissed it and stayed positive. I did the istikhara last week and after that my wife for the first time told me very clearly that she does not want a loving relationship and she blamed all the issues on my attitude. At that time this was enough for me to see as a sign from Allah and my decision for very easy at that time.
I understand the meaning the Nikkah and I always took care of her financially and any other way she wanted, yet she kept saying to me that it is only Nikkah and she is not really my wife yet. Nikkah is can not be done by one side only.
BUT THERE IS ONE THING I WANA TELL U ABT WOMEN N EVEN OUR PROPHET SAID IT I DONT KNOW D EXACT WORDS BUT IT MEANT SOMETHNG LIKE : ""WOMEN WERE BORN FROM UR RIB , WHICH IS A CURVED BONE , HANDLE HER WID LOVE N NEVER FORCE OR COMPELL HER TO DO SOMTHNG ..... SURLY THEY NEED TO BE TREAT ONLY WID LOVE "" WAT IT MEANT ws treat women wid love only , if u forceeeeeeeeeeeeeee thm to harrd for somthgggggggggggg they totally reject itttttttttt! but iF u slowly explain thm , n try to convince thm , they can u nythng for u ............... it APPLIES TO ALL WOMEN |
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« Reply #54998 on: May 05, 2012, 12:34:58 am » |
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Maybe she deserves someone like you, who says just shut up and do what I am asking you to do and I dont give a sh!t about love and emotions. You can call me 10 years old or 5 but thats not the kind of person I am. People who are telling me its the right decision, they are saying that after considering the kind of person I am. That is why they are saying it is the right decision for ME.
brother , jus to clear up ....... I did not mean that ur making a wrong decision ............according to the condition ur in ur making right decision ......... the point i am trying to make over is here ........... >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> Q1 how do u know if the person is right for u ? living with the person .............. >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>Q2 how can u tell person is wrong for u ? no formula ........... some person looks wrong later in stage prove excellent ....... some look good in beginning but prove worst >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>Q3 Wen u make ur worst decisions ? personal observation , that I make worst decisions wen i am v-stressed ............. and u know wen ur stressed ....... ur head hurts, blood pressure shoots ......... and feel burden and ghutan inside u ................... frustration ............... in that situation .............. u should always take suggestion ......... >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>Q4 If ur in pain/trouble/stress/middle of nowhere how do u answer other people ? mostly u dont wanna talk to people ........... and wen u answer ............. ur very rude even u dont mean to be rude ........... that is the reason , I said u might feel different after some years .............. wen u get over it ................the best thing is ......... jus ignore it for a time .......... and do ur normal things as u were used to do ................. and time is the biggest solution for some of the problems in life ............. with time it would have gone better ............... & today if ur bearing worst of her ................ tomorrow wen ur in some situation ............ she will bear worst of ya .................. from ur posts on the forum I can for sure say ............. ur a very nice person ...........for sure .............. but avoiding problems is not solution may look to be solution for some time .............. wot ever i say is jus my suggestion and from my observations ................ u or any one may disagree to it .......... |
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KHAN05
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Med's Request: 06-2011
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« Reply #54999 on: May 05, 2012, 12:35:25 am » |
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BUT THERE IS ONE THING I WANA TELL U ABT WOMEN N EVEN OUR PROPHET SAID IT
I DONT KNOW D EXACT WORDS BUT IT MEANT SOMETHNG LIKE : ""WOMEN WERE BORN FROM UR RIB , WHICH IS A CURVED BONE , HANDLE HER WID LOVE N NEVER FORCE OR COMPELL HER TO DO SOMTHNG ..... SURLY THEY NEED TO BE TREAT ONLY WID LOVE ""
WAT IT MEANT ws treat women wid love only , if u forceeeeeeeeeeeeeee thm to harrd for somthgggggggggggg they totally reject itttttttttt!
but iF u slowly explain thm , n try to convince thm , they can u nythng for u ...............
it APPLIES TO ALL WOMEN
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« Reply #55000 on: May 05, 2012, 12:35:49 am » |
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Need some help so plzzzzzzz help me out today my husband went to do his remed but dr didn't give him anything? now we r thinking how we going to tell chc that we have done remed? any idea guys? plz if u guys know what to do plz lets us know thanks... koi be asa nahe forum main jo mujy ess question ka reply day? where did your husband go for remed??....i mean which city, which DMP???.....was it a Remed only or PPR+Remed???....what's your timeline? you can write it in your cover letter that you have undergone medical exam........should be OK btw my doctor gave me a payment receipt after medical and i sent it with my PP to CHC and please feel free to share more info about your case.........this is the norm here on this forum.......if you don't post more, praise more, share more, help more, make more friends, console the people more, fight more, visit here more often, give people more +1......you will get LESS responses |
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« Reply #55001 on: May 05, 2012, 12:38:47 am » |
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where did your husband go for remed??....i mean which city, which DMP???.....was it a Remed only or PPR+Remed???....what's your timeline? you can write it in your cover letter that you have undergone medical exam........should be OK btw my doctor gave me a payment receipt after medical and i sent it with my PP to CHC and please feel free to share more info about your case.........this is the norm here on this forum.......if you don't post more, praise more, share more, help more, make more friends, console the people more, fight more, visit here more often, give people more +1......you will get LESS responses lol +1 for u lol |
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lonly widout hubby
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Ratings: +54
Category........: FAM
Visa Office......: islmabad
Doc's Request.: sep 2010 &" refill-forms+ repcc) 2nd jan 2012
Nomination.....: RPRF Fee letter "28th march 2012"
AOR Received.: sep 2010 ( dated aug)
File Transfer...: aug 2010
Med's Request: feb 2nd 2012 (remedical ws sent on 28th dec 2011 , but we never recieved it , ask to resend on 24th jan)
Passport Req..: 21st july 2012 ! Allah ka shukar !
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« Reply #55002 on: May 05, 2012, 12:54:07 am » |
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« Reply #55003 on: May 05, 2012, 01:12:29 am » |
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lol +1 for u lol
LOL +1 for you too malik sb..........yar kia krein this is what i think happens here all the time..........even i know i'm one of the oldest members here...........and people know tuco.........a husband and applicant who lacks in thorough knowledge/information about this immigration/spousal sponsorship process which is why he posts less here  ..........but whenever i asked a question i got less responses.........even many of them didn't bother to congratulate me on my PPR.........so i tried to find causes and the finding was "mr.tuco you always posted less, so bear the repercussion now" |
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« Reply #55004 on: May 05, 2012, 01:36:04 am » |
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Hello all, I am having a serious issue. I filed sponsorship application to CHC -Mississuaga for my spouse a while ago. My spouse's family before i got married already filed immigration for the whole family under FSW in 2007. Now, I didnt know it or I'd like to think I forgot this huge point while applying for spousal immigration. Now my spouse has essentially two consecutive applications for immigration. I knw it a big problem but what should I do now? any help plzz if i recall, all the FSW applications have been scratched off who were in process since 2008........so it is not as serious an issue as you think.......otherwise act upon Danny's advice and call them .....chillax and what do you mean when you say "my spouse" ......please explain if you don't mind sharing.......and if you still don't share people won't revert to you i'm generally pissed off when people write here "my spouse", "my family", "i got papers from CHC", "i sent papers to CHC"..........why don't they try a bit to be more specific like my wife, my husband, i got Imm forms, i sent PCC to CHC..........and why are they scared of sharing their timelines here and then they rarely show up here again.......till the time they have a serious issue like you're having now......and sometimes they come and tell "oh i have an interview next month".......but they never come back and share what happened to their interview this forum does not need the information in bits & pieces........please try to understand.........the more you share about your case you, the more help you will get from here.......and it may help others tooo in many ways........please don't just visit here by saying "i have applied for spousal sponsorship and the very application is in process by they very department of Citizenship & Immigration Canada" and read my earlier post again if you want to gain MORE from this forum and don't want to get LESS.......this i'm telling you from my experience here |
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