CHC, Islamabad Spouse Sponsorship Timeline 2009 -2010

[tanziatif]

Assalam o Alaikum Everyone,

Hope each one of you is doing great and is about to be united with his/her spouse or is already with his/her loved one like me, alhumdullilah. I landed in Canada, Toronto on 4th March, 2012. I traveled with PIA. Overall experience was good, not bad except they delayed take off by 3 hours, served breakfast on ground and fed us with only one meal i.e. lunch around 6pm as per PST during 15hour flight. I, however, slept my way through for 80% of the time. My interview with the Canadian immigration officer at the airport went fairly well. I had to hire a porter for all the luggage that i brought with me which was around 8 pieces ( suitcases and cartons). Custom officer only asked me what would follow so i gave them my list and respective photographs. They stamped my docs and never checked/scanned my baggage. So all in all , it took me 2 hours at the airport.

I have been wanting to update you all for quite a while now, but got lazy... sorry about that !
I would be more than happy to answer questions, if any. Thank you
Fee Amman Allah.

[Danny4450]

miss sawera i can prove you . aurat is the bigest fitna .. very rare  very rare u get some one  jis ko kuch akal ho .. and one thing yes larkey bhi problem creat kartay hein but i can prove u aurat is the real problem . pakistaniyon ki jab overseas shadi hoti hai tu most of them are arrange marriges .but it dsnt servive .. ( sass baho ke jhagray .. bhabi . nand ke jhagray .  daivraniyon . gehthaniyon ke jagray .) kabhi aap nay sona hai . susar . damad ke jhagray . saley behnoi ke jhagray . hamzulfon ke jhagray .. very rare . bahot kam hota hai . or eik larka akela ja kar wahan on ki family mein rehta hai phir bhi iss shatain ki anat orat ko larai jaghray ke  so bhaney miltay hien or larkiyon ko lareiy karney ke liye koi wajah nahe chaye hoti . or in the end divorce ho jati hai .. mard is doniye ki sab say mazlom qoam hai , jo bachapan mein baap say bhai say mamo chachey say pit jata hai ..bahot ehsan ho tu eik cricket bat mil jata hai . kabi sona hai kisi larkey ko ghar walon nay soney ki  chain lay ke di ho . ? or larkiyan . pehlay larka man behan ke agay pisata hai . phir bivi bachey . i can prove you thats why i love my dad more then my mom i am more close to my dad .. although  he is very strict.  larkon ki aksariyat schol  paidal jati hai . gaon mein tu larkon ko kaprey hi nahe lay kar diye jatey . oh ji yeh tu larka hai iss ki kia sharam .  

Halka haat rakho meray bhai.. Mard aur aurat dono ko barabar hona chahiey. Na mard itna mazloom hai na aurat.

[Danny4450]

Assalam o Alaikum Everyone,

Hope each one of you is doing great and is about to be united with his/her spouse or is already with his/her loved one like me, alhumdullilah. I landed in Canada, Toronto on 4th March, 2012. I traveled with PIA. Overall experience was good, not bad except they delayed take off by 3 hours, served breakfast on ground and fed us with only one meal i.e. lunch around 6pm as per PST during 15hour flight. I, however, slept my way through for 80% of the time. My interview with the Canadian immigration officer at the airport went fairly well. I had to hire a porter for all the luggage that i brought with me which was around 8 pieces ( suitcases and cartons). Custom officer only asked me what would follow so i gave them my list and respective photographs. They stamped my docs and never checked/scanned my baggage. So all in all , it took me 2 hours at the airport.

I have been wanting to update you all for quite a while now, but got lazy... sorry about that !
I would be more than happy to answer questions, if any. Thank you
Fee Amman Allah.

Nice to hear that you made it safely to Canada without any issues. All the very best to you and thy hubby

[zaig]

danny bhai lagta hai aap abhi tak apni beguam ke sath rahey nahe hai .. allah karey easa hi ho jeasa aap keh rehey hein ..but agar aap easa na bhi  kahein tu i tell you one thing larkiyon ko aap ko yeh request nahe karni parti catch me if i am wrong . when ever they will argue with you they will say you wrong and then even if you are right they will make you wrong .. aap ke liye eik movie batata hon .. pyar ka panchnama must watch it .

or eik baat mein  sab larkon ko bata don . jitna ho sake apney parents and apney bhen bhaiyon ki batain apni beguam say bacha ke rakho on ke sath aap ka kia relation hai aap  ka kia lein dain hai. or specialy meri taharah jin ki love marrige hai woh tu har sorat  iss ka khayal rakhein . warna das lakh ki shoping kareny ke baad aap ka eik bag jo aap apni choti behan ke liey lay lo gai os par aap ke ghar mein 2 din larai paki . apni bivi ki respect bhi mat down honey do defend karo ossey magar please it is my sencior advice to all married males . bachlors are all right onhein larkiyan kabi apna asli chera nahe dikhati unless affair sal say ziyada *censored word*a na ho jaye .

[Danny4450]

u r v jealous from ladies... think before u say anything against ladies because ur mom sister and daughters are female as well....its the problem of boys who cant balance relations... either they just lsiten to their mom completely or wife.... they should listen to both and then decide....

There could be an argument from both sides regarding this non-balance but the fact of the matter is both the husband and the wife have to make adjustments and work towards their betterment if they want to live happily married.

[khushi humesha 100]

miss sawera i can prove you . aurat is the bigest fitna .. very rare  very rare u get some one  jis ko kuch akal ho .. and one thing yes larkey bhi problem creat kartay hein but i can prove u aurat is the real problem . pakistaniyon ki jab overseas shadi hoti hai tu most of them are arrange marriges .but it dsnt servive .. ( sass baho ke jhagray .. bhabi . nand ke jhagray .  daivraniyon . gehthaniyon ke jagray .) kabhi aap nay sona hai . susar . damad ke jhagray . saley behnoi ke jhagray . hamzulfon ke jhagray .. very rare . bahot kam hota hai . or eik larka akela ja kar wahan on ki family mein rehta hai phir bhi iss shatain ki anat orat ko larai jaghray ke  so bhaney miltay hien or larkiyon ko lareiy karney ke liye koi wajah nahe chaye hoti . or in the end divorce ho jati hai .. mard is doniye ki sab say mazlom qoam hai , jo bachapan mein baap say bhai say mamo chachey say pit jata hai ..bahot ehsan ho tu eik cricket bat mil jata hai . kabi sona hai kisi larkey ko ghar walon nay soney ki  chain lay ke di ho . ? or larkiyan . pehlay larka man behan ke agay pisata hai . phir bivi bachey . i can prove you thats why i love my dad more then my mom i am more close to my dad .. although  he is very strict.  larkon ki aksariyat schol  paidal jati hai . gaon mein tu larkon ko kaprey hi nahe lay kar diye jatey . oh ji yeh tu larka hai iss ki kia sharam .  

haha OMG u made me laugh!ye pata nahi aap kon se era ki baatein kerahe hain yahan to behan k bajaeyy bhaiyon ki perhai per ziada tawaja di jati hai ....larkian jo bechari inti hard working hoti hain A one grades lati hain un per un nakara bhaion ko zabardasti high qualifications dilayi jati hain! :)Mardo k sare jhagre money issues per hote hain chaye wo bahi bahi ho ya susr damad!

[zaig]

sabi   aap ke argument mein hi aap ka answer hai .. read it again .. problem hi tu yahi hai  . ke  ladies nobat yahan tak lati kiyon hai . problem hi tu yahi hai . ke nobat yahan tak aye kiyon ke dono side say koi easi baat soni parey . why cant you just tolerate each other . why the hell there is the question of balancing why cant you provide already a balanced life ..ham kiyon soney or kiyon balance kartye phirein . har rishtey ki apni eik jagah hoti hai .yeh balance baho or  susral ko karna hota hai . na ke mard iss liye shadi kartye hien ke ab kachari lagai rakhein .or wakalat sontey rahein or faislay kartey rahein

[sabii]

There could be an argument from both sides regarding this non-balance but the fact of the matter is both the husband and the wife have to make adjustments and work towards their betterment if they want to live happily married.

yes, i agree with you and its not rite to blame a wife for everything... if someone's wife is not gud that doesnt mean every wife is like that.... weird comments from some people GOD  

[Danny4450]

danny bhai lagta hai aap abhi tak apni beguam ke sath rahey nahe hai .. allah karey easa hi ho jeasa aap keh rehey hein ..but agar aap easa na bhi  kahein tu i tell you one thing larkiyon ko aap ko yeh request nahe karni parti catch me if i am wrong . when ever they will argue with you they will say you wrong and then even if you are right they will make you wrong .. aap ke liye eik movie batata hon .. pyar ka panchnama must watch it .

or eik baat mein  sab larkon ko bata don . jitna ho sake apney parents and apney bhen bhaiyon ki batain apni beguam say bacha ke rakho on ke sath aap ka kia relation hai aap  ka kia lein dain hai. or specialy meri taharah jin ki love marrige hai woh tu har sorat  iss ka khayal rakhein . warna das lakh ki shoping kareny ke baad aap ka eik bag jo aap apni choti behan ke liey lay lo gai os par aap ke ghar mein 2 din larai paki . apni bivi ki respect bhi mat down honey do defend karo ossey magar please it is my sencior advice to all married males . bachlors are all right onhein larkiyan kabi apna asli chera nahe dikhati unless affair sal say ziyada *censored word*a na ho jaye .

Bro, I can see your views towards women have to do alot with your life experiences. I don't blame you for having these views but not everyone's situation is same. Yeah there are issue with wifes and mother-in-law & sister-in-laws and it depends on the women you are dealing with in your family, but as a man you have to balance both and play it smart. You have to observe them and base your approach from there. Its good that you have learned it over some time and I guess most of the people learn it by experience.

[bestplace4u]

Let me be a Troll for a moment
This just came in Shahid Afridi at Karachi Airport kicked and punched few people very badly.
Reason is still not confirmed yet

[Danny4450]

yes, i agree with you and its not rite to blame a wife for everything... if someone's wife is not gud that doesnt mean every wife is like that.... weird comments from some people GOD  

He is just speaking from his personal experience. It doesn't mean all the women are like that. But stuff like this happens to a lot of guys where they try to balance both sides but due to the nature of the issues and women they are dealing with, it becomes a headache resulting in opinions like above. I don't blame him for having these opinions and especially when he had a love marriage. It happens and people have to man up and deal with it

[khushi humesha 100]

Agar aisa hai tau yeh ghalat hai. I tell my wife that If I say something and she doesn't agree with it, she should talk to me about it and just not accept it just because I said it. I could be wrong. Infact I have been wrong with a lot of things in my life.

I didn't get married to just do what I want, I got married so I can have someone who can tell me when I am wrong and sharp enough to catch my mistakes and help me correct them. Its another thing if someones spouse isn't sharp and very naive so they can't voice their opinion and I am not talking about you at all.

haha  danny bhai lagta hai aap abhi tak apni beguam ke sath rahey nahe hai . waise I agree with what he said in last post that u don't need to say her that point out ur mistake ....

[zaig]

thanks khushi for  joing this .. pehley mein zara sabi ko khush kar lo .. aap ney kaha mein ladies say jelous hon . give me a break ..duniya mein na tu aaj tak koi aurat nabhi ayei bulke jo adam as ke sath ama hwa ayi janat say niklwa diya . andaza karo aurat tu janat mein mard ko chain say nahe rehney dia .
koi bari sincedan orat nahe jelasoy tu whan hoti hai jahan koi chez aap achive nahe kar sak rahey hon or koi or kar raha ho . aurat say kis cheiz ki jelousi my dear . kisi nay kaha larkon ko ala taleem di jati hai . and girls are ignored . let me tell you islambad mein nazar dorao check karo kitanay ease highly qualified larkey hain jo iss liye higly qulified hain ke on ki sister ka pesa on pay laga hai .or gaon mein say kitany higly qualified nikaltey hain .?  
oper kisi nay kaha larkon ke jhagrey peson ke hotey hein true . magar woh pesay on larkon ke use kon karta hain or on par pressure kis ka hota hai . bivi . agar bivi nahe tu koi girlfriend . ya phir .. koi ...?

[Danny4450]

haha  danny bhai lagta hai aap abhi tak apni beguam ke sath rahey nahe hai . waise I agree with what he said in last post that u don't need to say her that point out ur mistake ....

I told my wife this so if a decision backfires in the future, I am not only the one to be blamed 

[zaig]

danny bhai i will  see after 1 year when u will be with her .. mein dil say dowa karta hon aap ki begum mujhe ghalat sabhit karey .. wesay by the way meri shadi servive kar rahi hai and inshallah karey gi because what so ever the problem is but ham phri bhi eik dosrey ke baghir kahana nahe kaha saktey . i used to be a play boy but since i met my loved one no other women . so iss liye we know that we have to live togather as made for each other . but i am talking about who are divorced .