I would recommend that you word your information and questions more clearly and directly so that more people respond. It's a bit difficult to follow right now. But I'll try to provide some information.
First of all, there's no "short emigration north". Regardless which immigration route you select (and assuming you qualify), you're probably looking at 10 months processing time minimum (if you're luckly) - up to several years.
I assume you and your significant other are not married. Do you qualify as common law? (Common law = have lived together for a minimum of one full year.) If you are not married or common law, this will make it much more difficult to permanently move to Canada together.
You seem to want to move here permanently. Have you thought about coming here temporarily instead? Perhaps through a program like bunac?
http://www.bunac.org/